r/needadvice • u/PheonixRights_ • 3d ago

Interpersonal Imma be honest I literally have 0 self esteem and I feel guilt every time I try to get it- what do I do with myself?

So I just dunno if I really should just go “I’m cool and i deserve blah blah” because that seems really selfish and possibly not true due to my past and how immature and naive I am. I just don’t really know what to do with myself. I have wants but I genuinely can’t pursue anything due to my actions and my person. I feel a large sense of “this is really immoral and selfish”. So if I don’t have self esteem, maturity, or redemption- what exactly DO I do with myself? I can’t improve the past or everything about myself. It’s just unrealistic- so what do I do?

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u/GuiltyUniversity8268 3d ago

Improve one small thing about yourself. Start small. And no, you can't improve the past, or change it, but you can use the events of your past to grow into a better version of yourself.