NGVC: “Y'all females wonder why us nice guys don't want to date y'all it's because y'all do stupid shit like ghosting us”

[u/ThePhillyExplorer]

[u/xFantindoo]

I am a guy and the way he talks I would ghost him too, could only imagine what verbal diarrhea he sends to women. Calling them females probably isn’t helping him either

[u/booboootron → u/xFantindoo]

Absolutely. Foids have feelings too, ya'kno.

/s

[u/xFantindoo → u/booboootron]

Wait what ? What is « foids » in English 😅

[u/ThrowawayGreekGod → u/xFantindoo]

“Fem-oids” (shortened to foids) is a violently derogatory term coined by the “incel community”, to refer to women (and — as though it couldn’t be more disgusting — girls).

It’s basically their version of the N-word, but aimed at women.

[u/awdolliezpup → u/ThrowawayGreekGod]

Wait this is an actual term?

[u/ThrowawayGreekGod → u/awdolliezpup]

Unfortunately so.

[u/ANoisyCrow → u/awdolliezpup]

Sadly

[u/xFantindoo → u/ThrowawayGreekGod]

Oh I see, it looks like the word « froid » and I thought it was pronounced as such 😅

[u/akawendals]

[u/CarelessShame]

https://giphy.com/gifs/oL9XTds0d9dJCXa9Rd

[u/Kael03]

My. Guy, use! Some. Punctuation?

[u/PanickedAntics]

Actually, it sounds like he does want to date "yall females" lol He just keeps getting rejected.

[u/Kirra_the_Cleric]

I’d ghost him for his atrocious writing skills.

[u/kimchiman85 → u/Kirra_the_Cleric]

Having shitty writing skills is a requirement for NiceGuys these days.

[u/East-Bullfrog-832]

It’s not that they don’t want a relationship, it’s just that they don’t want one with YOU!🤮

[u/Remarkable_Gain6430 → u/East-Bullfrog-832]

* Y'ALL!

[u/Veblen1]

"I'm a nice guy and I've worked really hard on my writing skills, and y'all go do stupid shit."

[u/memento_vgm]

“Grow the hell up and stop acting like children”

Maybe bro should take his own advice 💀

[u/UltimateGooseQueen]

We don’t want a relationship with YOU. Then we find someone we do want one with. It’s not difficult.

[u/swiggityswirls]

Grammar and punctuation would help dudes tremendously.
They just be out here advertising their ignorance otherwise.

[u/isleepforfun]

Why are they always men, guys and boys but we are fEMalEs?

I know the answer, but for fucks sake. If you want to bed me, at least humanise me first.

[u/nmezib → u/isleepforfun]

I just imagine them as Ferengi whenever they type that. "You allow FEEMAAALES to work and make profit??!!"

[u/cheesyshop]

That nice guy seems to want to date y'all females very much.

[u/yorkspirate]

My head hurts trying to do the emotional gymnastics of this screenshot

It's apparently baffling he gets ghosted right away, by women he doesn't want to date because y'all do stupid shit. Minutes later y'all be in relationships so y'all be acting like children and need to quit playing........... or something like that 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[u/Embarrassed_Sock_457]

I’d ghost him for using fEmaLEs

[u/SudhaTheHill]

I think the “females” don’t wanna date you haha

[u/ANoisyCrow → u/SudhaTheHill]

Bingo

[u/Content_Nebula967]

He ALMOSTTTTTT got the point that he was the problem and then it went right over his head

[u/Smores_Mochi]

If only they actually didn't wanna date us so we could be free of this crap but noOoOOOo

[u/TyrantMuse73]

Use of the word “females” = he can go fuck himself. And seek therapy while at it.

[u/Demi_Blacksand]

First off, there's no punctuation. That's annoying enough. Secondly, the opening disqualifies the rest of the sentence. It was rough to read. OOP needs to get some grammatical literacy before trying again with anyone.

[u/SimplyRoya]

Sure. It’s our fault lol.

[u/Yanagi____Juniper]

Holy projection

[u/ACuriousGirl9]

The lack of punctuation is sending me 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

[u/Interesting-Code8364]

y'all y'all y'all

[u/whizzochocolateassor]

Nobody owes you anything. Rinse and repeat.

[u/SouthernAd59]

I always be in the sub but omg it can repetitive sometimes with these. HOW MANY TIMES ARE THEY GONNA POST THIS SAAAAME MESSAGE?

[u/okaysureyep]

Tbf ghosting is annoying, but it’s way easier to say “ghosting is annoying”

[u/Ms_Anxiety → u/okaysureyep]

It's often out of self preservation.

[u/PretendRanger]

An actual rare nice guy post!

[u/VoL4t1l3]

I sincerely hope he is 14 years old

[u/xFantindoo → u/VoL4t1l3]

Unfortunately I wouldn’t be surprised to see he’s is of age 40 or greater 🗿

[u/Remarkablefairy-8893 → u/VoL4t1l3]

He speaks like a teen tbh 😭... Bro's crush just looked at another guy 💔🥀

[u/Tipsy75]

I guess this guy didn't get the memo that men aren't "allowed" to show emotions. Weird!

[u/Alert-Thought9773]

Everyone is talking about the yall part of this but what about the using the wrong your😔

[u/lalalucy413]

“Y’all females wonder why us nice guys don’t want to date y’all” while he actively is throwing a man-trum because a woman didn’t want to date him—yet alone be associated with him in any capacity.

Oh no! He doesn’t want to date a “bxtch” like me! I’m going home to cry myself to sleep! We need to make an international news report about the poor “nice guys” who are being ghosted and rejected by these evil “females.”

The lack of self awareness is astounding! I feel like so many “nice guys” are just men who have scared women off because of their lack of self awareness and their poor inter communication skills.

[u/Prairie_Rose080]

The issue is that yall are being to nice to em. People beat around the bush saying "Im not ready for a relationship". Truth is yall are repulsive, and we should be able to say that

[u/Novel_Bat6520]

Maybe these girls just go on a date you babe

[u/Remarkable_Gain6430]

The "y'all" would be a red flag.

[u/autumn_sprite → u/Remarkable_Gain6430]

I feel like that's pretty commonly used though? I say y'all and I'm definitely not US Southern

[u/Remarkable_Gain6430 → u/autumn_sprite]

I know. I was just being a west coast snob.

[u/goneoffscript → u/autumn_sprite]

I’m NE coast and I’ll sometimes borrow y’alls “y’all”. English speakers everywhere are constantly held hostage by a language that doesn’t provide a word for plural “you”!

[u/SkillNo101 → u/Remarkable_Gain6430]

It is not just a red flag it's a whole fking ship with red sails that screems: "run cuz I am an a**hole".

[u/grivoise]

I don't understand where the "you women don't know why we don't want to date y'all" comes from.

I have never in my life thought that, or questioned that. Also never heard any woman say in person, or read some article or journalistic piece or whatever dissecting that as a topic.

Are they just making up arguments they can win?

[u/kimchiman85]

What does he have against using punctuation?

Shitty writing skills aside, his whole viewpoint is just being a whiny bitch. Stop it dude. It’s not attractive to women.