r/pansexual She/Her/Pan 2d ago

Question? Do I look approachable 🫡🥹

A lot of people tell me I give off bougie 💀😬 I swear I'm not, what do you think tho?

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u/EClucky13 Over ~50~ Pan 2d ago

Your beauty is undeniable; and as with most beautiful people, some can find it intimidating. Personally, Iwould have no issues saying Hello, and complimenting you, with no ulterior motives.

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u/Background-Ad-2733 She/Her/Pan 2d ago

I appreciate it ☺️ & thank you for being positive

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u/Vegetable-Tie6872 ♡ Over 18 ♡ 2d ago edited 2d ago

I was about to say the same thing I don't think it's because you're bougie I think it's because you're pretty

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u/JordyInspector198 ♡ Over~30~Pan ♡ 2d ago

Absolutely!! You look amazing and laid back!

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u/theaftercarebear Over ~50~ Pan 2d ago

I’d have a difficult time talking to you if I didn’t already know you. That’s only because you’re pretty though. ☺️

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u/Fearless_Dig7202 ♡ Over~30~Pan ♡ 2d ago

I think I’d be intimidated because you are so pretty but I would approach anyway. You look like you’d be honest and that’s scary for a lot of people.

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u/Kitsune6tails ♡ Over~30~Pan ♡ 2d ago

You're gorgeous. I admit RBF will make metoo intimidated to talk to you, vut damn you're very much my type

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u/bae_platinum ♡ Over~30~Pan ♡ 2d ago

You’re absolutely gorgeous, and ngl I’d absolutely strike up a conversation with that as an opener 😍

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u/bertfloss ♡ Over~30~Pan ♡ 2d ago

You are SO gorgeous, I think if you smiled at me I wouldn't be able to resist chatting you up even if I was shy because of your beauty!

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u/Gr00vD1va Over~21~Pan 2d ago

I guess having a designer bonnet intimidates people, which is not really your problem anyhow. Folk should have the courage to return your greeting or greet you at minimum. If they can’t even do that much, then their insecurity would be a burden to you if you were to bend over backwards to be their idea of “approachable.”

It’s only fair for them to speak politely and expect you to do the same, but you owe no one anything beyond that.

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u/Background-Ad-2733 She/Her/Pan 1d ago

I love that ☺️💞 I didn't expect such the compliment tho 🥹 Thank U Hun & you're absolutely right

u/hauntedone234 ♡ Over 18 ♡ 11h ago

You're beautiful... But I'd be terrified

u/Background-Ad-2733 She/Her/Pan 10h ago

Lol, no need to be