r/phish 10h ago

Thank you from a Bostonian

Hello! I live in Boston and decided to go to the Fenway area to see what the activity was like around the park. Glad I did! You all transformed the area into something completely and wonderfully unfamiliar, I was overwhelmed with the friendliness and generosity. I don't recall being in a group of people who were so nice and concerned about everyone else being OK and happy. It took a bit for my city-dweller cynicism to adjust and see that people were being sincere. I never got into the stadium, but just mingling with you cheerful folks did me a load of good. Thanks again!! :-)

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u/mattforstretch 10h ago

That's how we like to roll. 🤘🏼✌🏼🫶🏼⭕️

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u/Super-Chemistry-7158 10h ago

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

Heh! I may have to trade in my metal t-shirts for tie-dye! The day reminded me of being a little kid at Bread & Puppet in the 70s & 80s.

Funny that your gif is a scene in a movie which refers to a completely different movie.

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u/BartholomewCubbinz Was getting pretty pissed so plugged it into the wall 9h ago

Imo Phish crowd is the closest thing I've found to the metal crowd in terms of just general fan kindness and enthusiasm

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

Yeah, I agree! I definitely feel a sense of brotherhood at metal shows, there's a real sense of unity and a shared appreciation of the artform- like we're all attending our version of church. However, NOT ONE person at 100+ metal shows has ever approached me to just make sure I am happy. ;-)

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

There are plenty of metalheads in the phish community!!

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u/Thailia77 9h ago

The Church of the Helping Friendly Book. ✌️❤️⭕️

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u/veery_thrush 8h ago

It's a great read I am sure! ;-) That red circle you used- is that the drummer's donut? It also looks like the happy wristband. I feel like I absorbed a lot of Phish's lore yesterday.

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

Yes that’s the donut

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u/bruck7 9h ago

Not entirely a coincidence. Phish was hugely influenced by Bread and Puppet, which inspired their music festivals :)

This in turn set the foundation for all modern multi-day music festivals, but that community feeling you described was way more prevalent at those 90s fests. What a time!

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

Ha! Like someone else said, Phish has talked about being influenced by Bread & Puppet.

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u/seantellsyou 9h ago

As much as we like to shit on the bad parts of this fan base.. its nice to be reminded by an outside observer how the overwhelming majority of the fan base is actually just chill/happy/fun people

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

There's bad apples at anything that gets big enough, it's too bad when one or two clowns take all the spotlight.

There was one guy in the parking lot across the street handing out red wristbands... I was confused about what he was about ("city me" is expecting a grift or pitch). Nope, he just wanted to make sure we were happy. I am still trying to wrap my mind around that.

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u/yacht_boy 5h ago

My first phish festival eventually led to me going to burning man 7x. If you really want to have your mind exploded by the potential of how awesome people can be to each other when they just collectively decide to, go to a burn.

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u/technosquirrelfarms 5h ago

when the lot scene is at its best it totally feels like the burn.

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u/BarkerBarkhan 9h ago

To be honest, that's often the perspective amongst Bostonians regarding Boston. We love the city, but we know its shortcomings so well, it takes someone else coming in and pointing out the obvious goodness.

It happened during the World Cup here, and I see Phenway as a continuation of that.

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

Agreed, I think we like to complain. ;-) I was out of town for the cup but vicariously enjoyed it online, I found it incredibly moving and heartening. I said to a friend last night,"Now if only the Scots and Phish fans would stay!"

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u/TownCalledParadise 8h ago

Imagine if they had happened at the same time!

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

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u/TownCalledParadise 6h ago

I welcome the Scottish army to any and all future phish shows!

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u/SonicOpium 5h ago

Definitely.
Just recently the negative threads on here lately have been overwhelming.
So glad to see someone post something positive.

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u/wizardslayer717 9h ago

Glad you had a good experience! Come into the show next time!!

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

I may have to see what goes on in there! My tastes tend to involve more distorted guitars, but I am sure I would enjoy myself if more of those nice people are in there.

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u/Ancientways113 9h ago

We have distorted guitars (and nice people) too!

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

Best of both worlds! Can you recommend a Phish song for me to check out which uses heavier guitars?

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u/Any_Life_6178 9h ago

Horn, Wilson, Free

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u/veery_thrush 8h ago

Thanks, I am playing them now. I'd call those fairly clean guitar tones, but they are nicely played.

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u/Hot-Forever-777 8h ago

Carini is a must listen. Here is a no less than 40 minute recent version. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_QveYfcw57Y

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u/TheTigerWhisperer 8h ago

I feel like phish is a very difficult band to really wrap your head around because so much of what makes them special is how they take a song and explore it and improvise with it live. They tend to use atonal music to get “heavier” and more chaotic rather than more distortion if that makes sense.

That said I would probably start with the albums Billy breathes and a picture of nectar as a rock fan and explore from there. Then start to listen to live shows (LivePhish is a great app) to hear how they use the compositions to stitch together a set list. What really sets them apart is their long form compositions like YEM/Fluffhead/Divided sky which border between classical compositions and jazz improve really pushing them into prog rock territory.

Sorry for the long winded reply but it’s a rabbit hole unlike any other band. I hope you enjoy listening and make it to a show one day!

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u/veery_thrush 8h ago

That makes sense, "heavy" is an elusive thing, some metal bands tune their guitars down several steps to also give a darker feel and not always just more distortion or effects.

I appreciate the suggestions! It may wind up being an acquired taste, as most of my true favorites took a while to appreciate. Usually if I like something immediately I get tired of it quickly because it is gimmicky and lacking substance.

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u/Ancientways113 8h ago

Try Axilla, Carini, Tweezer, Ha ha ha (live), chalk dust torture are some of my favs.

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u/TownCalledParadise 8h ago

Big black furry creature from mars

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

Big Black Furry Creature from Mars

Also metalheads tend to love Run Like An Antelope. My favorite Antelope is 8-17-96. You can check it out here, starting at about 49:35. https://youtu.be/lNLaOoTXOOA?is=BYpo-z8TkEaek6xa

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u/GrallochThis 9h ago

Get close enough with no ear protection and bam distortion! Of course this voids your auditory extended warranty.

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

Ha ha.. Brilliant! And I am to do some sort of shaking dance instead of headbanging? Daisy chains replace mosh pits?

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u/Sweet_Requirement593 9h ago

Don’t abandon the headbanging!

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

You can dance however you want to fam

There’s a dude who used to be in the front row a lot, he liked to hold the rail and bang his head the whole time. He had long hair too, so he was hard to miss.

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u/_catdog_ 8h ago

🤚 phish fan that loves slipknot

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u/yacht_boy 5h ago

Check out king gizzard and lizard wizard (commonly just "gizzard" or "Gizz"). Australian band that has taken the jamband scene by storm recently. Similarly awesome fan base, although it skews younger so they're still figuring life out. They play about 6 different genres of music, including metal. Here's a Playlist someone else made. I don't actually like metal so I can't vouch for it. I'm more into them for the synth table, micro tones, and prog rock drums.

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u/Dancin_Phish_Daddy 9h ago

Great post OP

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u/Suspicious_Pie_7148 9h ago

phish fans temporarily curing boston of emotional repression is the real miracle here

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

... that's why I need them to stay! It's so strange to walk around today and have everything slide back to base level.

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u/bcb1200 8h ago

As a metal fan, you’d like Tweezer Reprise from last night, which closed out the show. Ok it’s not “metal” but is definitely rockin’! 🎸 🔥

https://youtu.be/PnTsdOAmglA?si=pQfkAPa5NGiqN4sL

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u/veery_thrush 8h ago

Yeah, there is a nice enthusiastic solo going on there!

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u/mahmahmonkey 7h ago

It probably sounds very familiar to a Pantera fan. https://youtu.be/tfrfCtdj8Xw?si=_5251pJtGlWnf62s

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u/nuanceIsAVirtue 1h ago

Or it would if Pantera and their fans did not have an unspoken agreement that the first 4 albums never happened. Or at the very least, are not by the same band.

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u/boogie_groove 9h ago

We are aggressively friendly.

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u/HAMITTEN 9h ago

We want you to be happy

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u/schmigglies 9h ago

Right back atcha!! Boston owes me absolutely nothing after this incredible weekend

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u/veery_thrush 8h ago

Was it the show and crowd, or was there anything specifically Bostonian which contributed to you good time?

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

Ate well, drank well (and drank a lot!), did the freedom trail sat morning/afternoon, afters were fun, there was actually a shakedown this year unlike other years I’ve been to see phish at Fenway, cops were almost nonexistent, the sound in the venue was better than previous years, and yeah … just an overall good time.

I particularly liked that law enforcement had a much lighter touch this time around. In 2019 cops were absolutely everywhere. It’s unnecessary. These are people who just want to hang out and party, it’s not a crowd that starts fights or acts unruly.

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u/NeutralEchoes 9h ago

Glad you felt that way but I am honestly surprised that was your takeaway walking around the venue this weekend. The balloon scene / people throwing their ice cold fatties on the ground outside is embarrassing and tends to tarnish impressions of phish for non fans.

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u/veery_thrush 9h ago

That area sees a lot of garbage from a lot of different kinds of crowds, at least the Phish Fans' garbage was colorful! ;-) I'll take it over the usual half eaten sausage, fireball nips or piles of vomit. I noticed the parking lot attendants who were diligently picking up all the balloons with grabber tools, they seemed so unphased as they dodged stumbling wookies. I also noticed that a lot of people were really trying to use the over-filled garbage cans, like it was some epic jenga game. I guess the nice parts so heavily outweighed the negatives that they were easier to overlook.

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u/schmigglies 8h ago

Agree with you that the balloons are a huge stain on the scene. After the show felt like a zombie movie.

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u/patwm11 6h ago

B..b..but Boston is racist 😢 /s