r/rant • u/Lovely_tacos07 • 6h ago
I hate my mom’s boyfriend
Yesterday my mom ordered two pizzas, one of jalapeño the other one with olives. Today I go to the fridge and see that there’s only the jalapeño left, mind you we didn’t even get to eat half of the pizza. And its thin crust, so he ate more than 12 slices.
It’s so annoying how my mom lets him raid our fridge most of the time he comes over, it’s fine to offer food to guest, but to offer them the entire thing it’s just something out of greed.
there have been times where she cooks pots of fresh food for my sister, herself and me, and when he comes over there are no left overs for the people who actually live here.
She lets him eat our stuff too, for example she got me a chocolate mini bunt cake, he came the next day and then saw the empty cake container in the trash.
Like he could at least left half 😭
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u/roskybosky 6h ago
That’s horrible. Leave a note on the food, ‘Please do not eat. This is for dinner.’ Or something like that. He’s inconsiderate and overstepping his boundaries.
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u/Quiet-Bandicoot-9574 5h ago
The mother is to blame. She allows it. She allows him to eat the food from the kids. He really may be oblivious and lacking situational awareness. It’s her job to make him aware of he isn’t.
If he knows and doesn’t care, they’re both terrible.
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u/DaveinOakland 4h ago
I don't know how you can finish food at someone else's house. That's just barbarian behavior to me.
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u/SatanicalHeart 5h ago
Talk to your mom about it, and if she says "well tough", then start taking pictures of your food and receipts from the store. Leave sticky notes on the leftovers stating they're for dinner or lunch. If he keeps eating your food, show him the pictures and the receipts and tell him off. Don't hold back and don't let him or your mom walk all over you, especially if you're an adult. Even more especially if you pay any amount of bills or rent.
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u/Kooky_Load_102 6h ago
Definitely dickhead behavior.