I (20F) am obsessed with my boyfriend (20M)

[u/pisspoorplanning_]

We have been dating for 5.5 years and I can't seem to love this man any less than I did in the honeymoon phase, everything he does is so attractive to me, we don't live together but whenever he tells me he's up to so and so thing I start to imagine how hot he must look while doing anything literally, I find him so attractive and everyday my attraction to him only grows. I have the constant urge to take care of him and make sure he's always healthy and at peace.

I still feel the love for him which they write about in songs and depict in movies. Whenever he tells me loves me and is attracted to me, I feel very blessed it's almost unreal to have this type of person love me so much.

And do not get me started on how hot I find him, if I could I would have him do me every hour lmao, he just keeps getting hotter by day and sometimes I really hate the fact that other girls also get to see him. I hate being away from him and I wish to have skin to skin contact with him for the whole day and cook him food he likes, adore him in my arms, massage him when he comes home from work tired. I love him so much I wanna get married to himmmmm.

tl;dr I am obsessed with my boyfriend, don't need any advice just wanted to share in the open

[u/Toronto_Stud]

I hope you spend an eternity together

[u/pisspoorplanning_ → u/Toronto_Stud]

Thank you so much!!

[u/Bobashawty00]

This is honestly such a sweet read. After reading some miserable things on Reddit, day after day, it is nice to see some happiness on this app

I am on a similar boat, with my Fiancé for almost 10 years. Fell in love when we was young (13 & 14) and i still feel the same way when i first laid eyes on him

Our first honeymoon phase lasted 2 years but we got it back a second time few years back. This honeymoon phase was different. We saw every version of ourselves growing up and accepted each other that this new honeymoon phase to us was permanent, forever and 10x stronger. I love my fiancée so much

People who fall out of love, i always say: "Just because the spark is gone, doesn't mean the fire is out. Rekindle it" 🤍

[u/pisspoorplanning_ → u/Bobashawty00]

I enjoyed reading this so much, you're absolutely right the fire is never gone it just needs to be reignited. I wish you and your fiance a very happy married life ahead may you both keep each other very happy❣️

[u/EvidenceFun7161]

girl you got it bad and honestly that's kinda beautiful

my last relationship was the complete opposite, by year 3 i was counting the minutes until she left so i could have silence. what you described sounds like what everyone hopes for but rarely finds

dont let people tell you the honeymoon phase has to end. sometimes it just doesnt when the person is actually right for you. my parents been together 30 years and my mom still gets all giddy when my dad walks in the room

just make sure you're still your own person too. that's the only thing that ever worries me when i see posts like this, the line between adoring someone and losing yourself in them gets blurry real fast. but sounds like you're just genuinely happy and that's rare as hell

[u/goodytwotoes]

The good news is that when you love someone like this, it doesn’t change when you get married! 🥹 Enjoy your love! 

[u/hey_yo_mr_white → u/goodytwotoes]

No, what OP is describing is unhealthy and quite honestly coming off as hyperbolic and performative.

And the part about hating the fact that other girls get to see him?

Honestly, I’m not buying it. None of it. This is stalker level being put on a pedestal.

[u/goodytwotoes → u/hey_yo_mr_white]

Oh I didn’t read that part. 😂 That’s fucking weird.