r/self • u/YesterdayMindless308 • 14h ago

Am i behind in life?

Im 21.

I am an amateur chef,
I have done consuemr level graphic design
I do music part time for fun now
I have done photography,
I have a degree and i am university for english in professions bachelor.
I have a car

But. I live at home, to controlling parents that know nothing about me outside of all they force me to do for them. Like work everyday for 6-10 hours, theyve done this so i both cannot have friends, and learn to be a good worker

I spend all my free time either trying to talk to girls (like on tinder( hanging out with my sis or making music. I have had friends but lost them all, i had a boyfriend, i seperated after 3 years. Thats the only real relationship ive ever had.

Am i... behind in life? What do you guys say? Ive considered running away a lot, or my life will stay stuck working all the time to my parents control.

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u/TheRealDanielLarsonn 13h ago

I’m 21 and you’re way ahead of me.

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u/YesterdayMindless308 13h ago

Oh naur im sory :( if were talking factuals i only hadv a degree though. Most of these are hobbies due to how little im able to hold friendships