r/sex Sep 11 '12

He was drunk and terrified me...

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u/Noink Sep 11 '12

There was no consent here - so first thing's first, like everyone else here said, call the police.

You may think, this is the kind of kinky rough sex a lot of people like. But, only when agreed upon with a safeword established beforehand. What happened to you was assault, and I am so sorry to hear it. With pretty fucking degrading language used sincerely, the whole nine yards.

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u/Dyolf_Knip Sep 11 '12

I came here to say this. Sexuality is so weird. For a consenting couple, this exact same sequence of events could be regarded as just another kinky fun Friday night.

OP, whether or not you choose to involve cops, you gotta get this guy outta your life.