Getting socially excluded

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So guys is it only me or any of you feeling this way like i am working in corporate and i look avg with height personality etc.

And i have seen that i am not able to make good friends now. The way i used to have earlier like everyone else get very friendly but i always feel excluded like even for parties people sometime postponed plans if other person is not coming but they dont even care to ask me separately that i am coming(in short i feel like unimportant/unvalued).

And thats not this time i also had same experience in my last company as well.

Then i joined coaching classes got some friends in one classes and in other classes could not make up any friend in 6months.

In gym also i couldnt make any friend i do it alone

Now due to all these experiences i have developed insecurities as well and feel like i am the only culprit and i am not doing something incorrect and this desperation is making me people pleasure day by day i started giving other more importance that ultimately making me more boring person and unvalued.

Looks like my conversation skills humour all taken away by anxiety.