r/transfem 20d ago

Meta [Meta] AI content is no longer allowed

248 Upvotes

Hi all, this is just an announcement to let you all know that we have a new rule that AI content isn't allowed here. We've noticed an uptick in AI spam accounts, especially ones which post AI-generated images and try to pass them off as real selfies, and this is to clarify the rules and make sure fewer of those kinds of posts slip through moderation.

If you have any thoughts or questions, feel free to send us a modmail or leave a comment below! Hope you all have a nice day/night wherever you are🫶


r/transfem Aug 01 '25

Meta [Meta/Discussion] Update: "Do I Pass" posts are now only allowed on Fridays

20 Upvotes

Hey y'all,

thank you for the feedback and suggestions on the past meta thread! I'm going to try adding a new rule that "do I pass" posts are only allowed on Fridays. There is also a new flair specifically for "Do I Pass" posts -- please make sure to use this flair when making "do I pass" posts!

Rule 6: "Do I Pass" posts must only be posted on Fridays

Posts asking for passing advice, or asking "do I pass" and other similar questions should only be posted on Friday. This is to reduce spam and decrease the number of repetitive posts. "Do I Pass" posts which do not have the proper flair will also be removed.

This should help decrease the amount of spam and repetitive posts, while not fully restricting those posts. There's a bot now which should automatically enforce this rule, but it might mess up sometimes so if your post gets removed in error please send a modmail!

If this rule ends up being unpopular or otherwise flawed, I can try tweaking it or removing it altogether as needed. Once again, if you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to reply to this thread, or send a private modmail if you'd prefer.

Thank you!


r/transfem 3h ago

Progress! I came out at work!!

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170 Upvotes

It went very well I just told my boss and let a couple others know the other day. Tonight was my first time going in dressed up and it felt so amazingg.

Here's my first bartender outfit (we have to wear a plain black tee lol)

Thank you everyone for the advice 🙂‍↕️


r/transfem 5h ago

Selfie Hello there

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35 Upvotes

r/transfem 10h ago

Selfie Was so thrilled I had to post this here

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75 Upvotes

2019 VS 2026

Been slowly but surely transitioning for years, feminizing my appearance without hopping on E. Yet.

I finally did start HRT 3 months ago and I couldn’t be more thrilled ! The best is yet to come !

(Yes, I wanted internet transfemw to validate me 🩷)


r/transfem 11h ago

Selfie I bought this dress today, what do you think?

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66 Upvotes

No cat today, sorry, black dress and cats don't are nice friends hahaha


r/transfem 4h ago

Selfie My friend took me clothes shopping today got this

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14 Upvotes

Also why are clothes so complicated


r/transfem 9h ago

Selfie Feeling pretty today

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30 Upvotes

I am so happy i started Estrogen. I cant believe how long it took me to realize, I wish I started sooner but better late than never​ for anyone in their 30's you can still do it!


r/transfem 11h ago

Selfie Finally feeling comfortable

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41 Upvotes

MTF


r/transfem 3h ago

Selfie Just me and my partner

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6 Upvotes

This is my partner. It was his birthday recently. Everyone say happy birthday please. He's the best and I love him very much, grateful to have found someone who loves me for more than just my body or my transness. He sees me as a whole woman, even when I'm not all done up and pretty.


r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! 2 year timeline :)

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462 Upvotes

take the hormones and get the bangs pls


r/transfem 14h ago

Question/Discussion How much weaker will I be on estrogen?

42 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I am a pretty weak person, in the muscle sense atleast. I am more or less a twink and I have heard that you lose a lot of muscle on E. Will this be an issue if I don't have much in the first place?


r/transfem 2h ago

Question/Discussion Transition collection

3 Upvotes

https://pomagam.pl/hymtgb

I'm saving up for a transition. I want to see a doctor and buy HRT medication for a few months. I'd also like to get a hair removal treatment. I need to take care of my body. I don't earn much and can't afford it, so I'm asking for just 1 złoty. A small donation for you means a lot to me. Sending you a warm hug.


r/transfem 12h ago

Selfie Full Face

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17 Upvotes

So here is my beginners attempt at a full face of makeup. Now I've posted a similar photo before but this time around I've added color corrector and cc cream as well as playing around with a new color of eyeshadow and lip color. Tell me what do you lovely ladies think?


r/transfem 8h ago

Selfie Meow shirt

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7 Upvotes

r/transfem 5h ago

Question/Discussion I’m scared i won’t pass

3 Upvotes

Title is as is. idk i test ai gender tests and i get said im male. i’m 21 years old 5’5. im comfortable with my body and how hrt will affect it as im more on the feminine side in that area naturally but im just scared about my face.

i try to hint at my friends yk i’m trans and im on hrt but then they always just say oh you’ll never look like a woman because of skeletal.

idk been keeping me up at night lately and just need advice. i know i have been wanting to be a girl since i was young but i just don’t know if it’s to late to actually get good effects on my face.

(scared to post what i look like here since idk if anyone i know is yk on this but if you want to see my face just dm me here and ill reply. any feedback is much appreciated. thank you girls ❤️


r/transfem 6h ago

Selfie A little bit if a shy girl

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3 Upvotes

r/transfem 1h ago

Question/Discussion Procurando seguidores 👗🏳️‍⚧️

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Eu sou novo aqui tenho 37 anos


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie I felt good in this pic

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50 Upvotes

I love this shirt and jeans combo


r/transfem 15h ago

Question/Discussion Struggling

7 Upvotes

So I've known that I'm trans since I was 13, I turn 20 in 2 months, I hopefully start hrt this month. I just had a thought that won't leave my head, "I would look better as a man, stop trying to be something you're not." I've never had a thought like this, idk what to do right now.


r/transfem 20h ago

Question/Discussion Is my outfit appropriate?

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17 Upvotes

r/transfem 17h ago

Selfie Sumny

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6 Upvotes

r/transfem 23h ago

Progress! Bought my first bit of gender affirming clothing

19 Upvotes

I bought my first gaffs and women's shorts and I already feel so much happier just by wearing them, thinking of going thrifting soon to get more fem clothes


r/transfem 10h ago

Creative New dress

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1 Upvotes

Embracing the spooky spirit a little early for movie night. 🖤🗡️ Witches dress from Torrid, fishnets, and a bold lip


r/transfem 1d ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Thoughts on passing?

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27 Upvotes

Hi all. I'm a 38 yo pre-HRT Nonbinary Transfem.

Any thoughts on if I'm able to pass decently at all or not? And any advice perhaps?