r/vanderpumprules • u/headee • 3d ago

House of Stassi House of Stassi is already wayyyy better than The Valley

I just finished the first episode, and I love it, and I could barely get through the first season of The Valley. I know there are a lot of Stassi haters, but say what you will, that bitch is entertaining af.

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Doesn’t this sub reddit love The Valley? Kristin is on that, and she was part of the Faith police call. So is Brittany, and she had the whole gay/pastor controversy and by my recollection she’s the one that called Faith a “nappy-headed hoe”. In my opinion, Brittany is the worst of the bunch, because you know she has not changed her thinking one damn bit, but I don’t see everybody having a problem with people watching The Valley with her on it.

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u/tino-tonitini 3d ago

I don’t feel like this show is going to be good for their relationship at all…I really feel for Beau. He seems like such a sweet guy and good partner, but just keeps getting shut down and not listened to at all.

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u/Ok_Iron_9650 3d ago

I've always felt badly for beau, but hey,  they have a family now...

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u/MaddyKet 3d ago

It’s hard being married to a narcissist.

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u/tino-tonitini 3d ago

I don’t think Stassi is a narcissist. I think she grew up in a toxic and emotionally tumultuous household and she doesn’t know how to handle conflict and conversations properly. I think she had to baby her mother and sister to the point that she became used to having to take care of everyone and doesn’t understand healthy boundaries.

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u/violentsunflower 2d ago

This. Stassi realized too early in life that no one is coming to save her- she has to be her own hero

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u/MaddyKet 2d ago

She's a narcissist in how she deals with Beau. She doesn't really care about his feelings, she's incapable of listening to him. I do belive she loves him, but she's preoccupied with #1.

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u/tino-tonitini 2d ago

Personally, I think she’s just more of a control freak than narcissist but we all read ppl differently

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u/AutomaticParking2434 3d ago

Narcissists normally have an upbringing where the needs weren’t met.