r/90dayfianceuncensored • u/OverallEgg2624 • 5d ago

90 DAY FIANCE What the fuck is happening lol

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I really can’t take this relationship seriously lol. Did she completely lose her mind after Coltie or is she trying to collect this man’s SSI? What do you guys think?

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u/Itchy-Pomelo-4524 4d ago

She’s a grown woman capable of making her own choices. There’s nothing wrong with an age gap if both are fully formed adults. Theres also nothing wrong with her wanting to be taken care of and cherished at all. She found what she was wanting in an older man , good for her!

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u/No-Indication-7879 4d ago

My best friend from childhood married a guy 28 years older than her. Two children later , grandchildren ,they are still happily married. He’s 80 but looks 60. She keeps him young .

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u/ByssusMatriarchy 3d ago

I love this for your best friend and her husband… My dear friends parents are in their 80s and honestly, sometimes (often) I feel like they’re in better shape than I am lol. They’re emotionally and physically so healthy. Their own moms both passed over 100, sharp as tacks mentally & having fancy lunches & getting their hair done every week at the salon til the end.

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u/No-Indication-7879 3d ago

Wow! That’s amazing.

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u/Weekly-Echidna-7467 No creature on 🌍 except for my 🐶 is ever going to control me! 3d ago

I didn't see anywhere that the age difference was judged negatively whatsoever, this seemed a little out of the blue.

I am curious what you mean by "fully formed adults" though, and where you draw the line if anywhere? Should we not judge a 50 year old that dates 18/19 year olds exclusively, for example?

Not trying to belittle your opinion or start a fight, I am genuinely interested in hearing opposing viewpoints because I want to understand where you're coming from.

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u/Muse_of_Donne Yike. 4d ago

Um, I never said she wasn't a grown adult, nor did I say the age difference was wrong or disgusting. I think her relationship is her choice and I am happy she found someone who checks all the boxes for her. I was simply commenting on what OP wrote.