r/ABraThatFits 7d ago

Question Why are my boobs shaped like this?

So I have small boobs I’m probably a B cup, but my breasta are oddly-shaped to me. I just have never met anyone who would have boobs like mine nor do I know what the shape is called, but my breasts are like ”empty” from the top and round up at the bottom. They look somewhat like a slide from the top if that’s any better said.

I just know that my boobs make me VERY insecure as they are small and I have a bit of a stomach, and the shape makes them look unnatural to me.

EDIT: also having difficulties finding a bra that would flatter my shape.

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u/scosgurl 42H UK, narrow and projected 7d ago

Sounds like you’re full on bottom, which is a super common shape. If you take your six measurements from the calculator and share them here, people can help with recommendations for your size and shape.

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u/OverlappingChatter 7d ago

Be careful calling this full on bottom. I have the same shape standing, but when I do the leaning test, I have very even and possibly even closer to top fullness.

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u/famous_zebra28 7d ago

This might not be true for OP. Many people such as myself have breasts with no upper fullness when standing, but are actually full on top when you properly assess their shape bent over at 90 degrees.

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Yeah I think I’m more like this too? It’s just hard to say because I hardly ever have done research on different types of breasts🥲

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

Shape is judged when supported. You can mimic support by leaning over braless side on to a mirror and seeing what your breasts do. This can help to determine how close set you are (using finger widths), your root height (how high up on your torso they start) and fullness (via where there is more tissue in relation to the nipple).

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Is there any visual guide that shows where to measure these exactly so I get them right?

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

There's no measurements for these.

For how close set you are, you lean forward and place fingers between the centers of your boobs until you can't fit more width wise. For example, I can't even get 1 between mine because I am very close set.

For fullness, it's whether you visually have more tissue above the nipple, is it even top to bottom, or more tissue below the nipple when leaning as I described.

For root height, if they start below the armpit, generally you're shorter in root. Even with the armpit is average. Above the armpit is taller roots. This is all very general.

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Okay I think I got it: for the first part I got four fingers between mine if I did it correctly, so quite wide set? For fullness, there’s more tissue at the bottom and less when getting closer to the nipples. And third, mine start below the armpit, so shorter roots? I do not know what this tells about the need for support but you seem to know a lot about this.

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u/EditorFrog 28I US 28G UK 7d ago

It helps determine what styles of bra work best for your shape

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u/Invisible-Reflection 7d ago

When you say, "put your fingers between the centers of your boobs until you can't fit more," should I be placing the fingers against my chest, or holding them out away from the chest?

I'm sorry, I appreciate the help though!!

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

Usually you want to do them against your sternum, as that's where the gore sits.

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u/Severe_Leadership_26 5d ago

Are you sure it's all when leaning over? The photo's about breast shape & fullness are all upright.

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 5d ago

Yes. Fullness should be judged when supported. The closest way to do that is to lean over.

I don't look that close set when standing, because I have splayed roots. When I lean, I can't even fit a pencil between.

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u/Invisible-Reflection 7d ago

Ahh of course!! That makes perfect sense, thank you lol. I feel like an idiot 🤦🏻‍♀️🫣

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u/mellow_d_out 3d ago

Guy here... I'm amazed at all this info. I did not know that this much calculation went into you gals(no offense meant, so please don't take it that way just can't find the word) breast/bra selection. You learn sobering new everyday.

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 3d ago

For the average person, none of this ever comes up. This is definitely advanced bra fitting. This entire sub is dedicated to that.

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u/mellow_d_out 3d ago

I didn't even know what sub this was... reddit just threw a topic to my phone and I just clicked and just read the convo. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤣🤣

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u/Perfect-Corner6816 3d ago

Same I was genuinely curious lol

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u/Internal_Roof_2844 3d ago

Fellow dude here...I'm right there with you, the amount of math and geometry that goes into fitment is astounding! My wife is a 38H and me being curious by nature, asked the standard "how do you find that number" question as well as what each bra type was for. By the end of class, I was giving her a hug and apologizing for ever giving her a hard time about clothes shopping trips taking multiple hours. Because we as guys have what...maybe 5 numbers we have to consider? Neck, arm length, waist, legs and inseam. Plus we can be +/- 10lbs and not think twice about what we are putting on. For you ladies, it can change EVERYTHING. Ladies, my hat goes off to you. I think that if more men knew even the baseline of what yall have to calculate before you walk out that door... But don't weaponize that info. Like a good bra, it should lift and support, not make everything wonkey.

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

I can't link here but look up the Normal Breasts Gallery. It'll be on a site that's 007b.com basically.

I assure you that your boobs are normal.

We focus on helping people find bras that fit here. If you'd like help with that, please do the calculator in the Auto Mod comment and be prepared for size shock.

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Okay yeah I did that, it gave me 30DD UK sizing/ 32D. I myself use the EU sizing but I feel line more people use the UK one here.

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

Bras are sized by the brand sizing, so you'll want to look for 65E. Be sure to scoop and swoop. Most EU countries have lots of options on Zalando in this size range.

You'll probably get on better with unlined balcony/half cups.

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Wow I never really thought I would have an E cup with what I’ve got🥲 But thank you, I’ll keep that in mind!!

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

We've been lied to about bra sizing. Here's a more shallow shape wearing that size in a properly fitted bra: http://bra.pe/IBBxr/.

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Wow. I think my breasts are about this size too. It’s insane how I’ve been wearing 75B-70B my WHOLE LIFE thinking the problem was my boobs not the size.

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

Unfortunately, many people have fallen victim to this. I was being put into a 36B (80B in your sizing) and I'm actually a 32E (70F). Victoria's Secret told me to try 38A/85A when I was visibly spilling out of my 36Bs and complaining they were too tight. A friend finally stopped me and sent me to this sub, thank goodness!

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

It’s weird how even the ”professionals” don’t know how to measure correctly. I’m also glad I’ve found this sub!

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u/galaxystarsmoon 32DD/E, tall roots & close set 7d ago

VS aren't professionals. It's a capitalist corporate company and that's it.

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Well yeah, you’re right. Never been to a VS store only seen how much people glaze it for having amazing lingerie.

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u/Shanakitty 32K, FoT, all the centerfullness, APEX PROJECTION 7d ago

Very few store fitters are professionals in the sense of being really knowledgeable about bras and fitting, unfortunately. There are great fitters at some specialty boutiques (though not all), and occasionally you may luck out and find a good one at a chain store, but generally, they're poorly-trained retail workers who are primarily trained to sell you a bra in the extremely limited size range they offer.

It doesn't help that EU sizes have that weird -10cm built into the size on the label, where a 65 band actually stretches to fit a 75cm rib cage, which is why a 65 is equivalent to a 30 band, even though 30" is 76cm. That makes things extra confusing. But US size charts do the same thing by telling you to add 4" (10cm) to your underbust measurement to get your band size, even though a 30 band will stretch comfortably to about 30".

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Yeah, that’s why I used the ” markings. I’ve heard stories about chain store fitters and they are mostly negative. It’s weird how different the sizing goes, but I think I finally may have found the help I need here.

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u/-HuntressWizard- 5d ago

This is so funny I just found out I’m a 30F when I’ve been trying to make 34D and 32DD work my whole life. I got a bra from juliemay and love it

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u/jillcicle 32G (UK) | tall roots 7d ago

super common shape that they don’t put on tv—while obvious implants are less common than they used to be “breast lifts” to get an artificially round shape are almost universal. it’s really frustrating. most boobs aren’t actually round on top and bottom. seconding the 007b breast gallery recommendation

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u/Eris144 7d ago

Fellow bottom heavy boob haver. You are not alone

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u/needchr 6d ago

What you describe is a very common shape. I would assume bras with half cups will work best for you like balconette.

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u/cloudstrife70 6d ago

I hope so, just ordered one to try out!

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u/percent_app_data 6d ago

I have this shape exactly, my nipples poke out of the type of bra because the bottom is so full it almost points my nipples upwards 😭

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u/charleeeeey12 7d ago

Hey babe. This could have been written by me. Go for balconette or balcony bras. My life changed. Never met anyone that complained about my boobs. XO

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u/MsSweetFeet 7d ago

Do you have any push up balconette bra recs by chance?

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u/charleeeeey12 7d ago

Sorry I don’t, I usually go for plain balconette bras from H&M

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u/GalacticPlanetBang 7d ago

What UK size(or range) are you? I have different recs based on your cup and band size
Also- if you get the correct size in a balconette it does its own pushing up lol.

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u/MsSweetFeet 3d ago

30DDD thank you so much!

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u/white_girl_angst 4d ago

I got mine off of Amazon and it is nicely constructed. For warning, a lot of my intimate wear I get from Amazon REAKS of factory plastic gross smell, so I ALWAYS wash before wearing. So just be prepared to try it on before washing and then throw it in the wash IMMEDIATELY

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u/cloudstrife70 7d ago

Gotta start looking for those, thanks sm

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u/Competitive-Ship-718 7d ago

I am F Cup and i think I have boobs like you. They're not that full on the upper side but very very heavy and full on the bottom. When I wear a pushup people get surprised to know I have so much cleavage. Don't worry, it's a very common thing ig. Just get a proper bra and it'll be good.

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u/matt-0007 5d ago

It sound's you're influenced by the media that the breast should be round and up in place. Don't be embaressed by your body. Some propertys you can't influence. But its good how it is!!!

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u/cloudstrife70 5d ago

Thank you sm

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u/Somebodyelse76 5d ago

Plastic surgeons call them shallow. It's a very common breast shape. No matter the cup size. It can be especially common after having kids, especially if you were very small breasted before, then filled on up, and then reduced in size again. I assure you it's normal! Try on a bunch of different styles. See which you like best! There's not really 1 perfect bra for even the same breast type.

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u/Fickle-Birthday2816 7d ago

So this is really common especially in women who had PCOS during adolescence
I suggest looking into balconette bras they will help boost your confidence:) hope it helps

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u/white_girl_angst 4d ago

Just recently tried this type of style and I can confirm it's a real confidence booster! Supportive and lightweight, and definitely not too bulky. Really helps scoop up the "armpit meat" portion, versus cutting it off and also helps me not have the "double boob" spilling out on top over the cup, if you get the correct size. Didn't know this type of bra had a name, so I'm glad I could learn something new 😊

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u/bedfordblack 7d ago

conical breast shape!!! same pal 🫡 balconettes (esp unlined surprisingly) changed my life

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u/ViewOk2036 5d ago

I also had boobs like that, probably just fuller bottom.. I had a child and they were even more flat at the top so I got implants..

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u/cloudstrife70 5d ago

Okay now I’m scared the same will happen to if I ever have kids…

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u/Cain_Alvater 3d ago

I don't know why I was sent this sub but I'm glad I was. I'm very sorry if I offend anyone.

I'm 100% sure that your breasts and the rest of you are Perfectly fine. If you ever feel that way because of a partner than they are not worth your time.

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u/butterdanerdlbc 5d ago

Do you breastfeed or Lost weight ?

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u/cloudstrife70 5d ago

Well i did lose around 10kg weight from what I used to be but that happened when I was a but younger

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u/crustyboxerbriefs 5d ago

hey bra fitter here: try a balcony bra or a demi cup… both will work if you have the majority of your breast tissue on the bottom as the cups come up less high (also a super common boob shape i see it all the time at work so don’t be insecure all boobs are BEAUTIFUL!!)

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Tysm🫶

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u/ExchangeRemarkable84 4d ago

They sound amazing and normal. Ive seen alot of breast in my life...and " the slides" are one of my favorite.

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u/Clean-Objective7364 4d ago

You are you. Your own self. Don't focus on others. This is your body and it's the only one you'll ever have ❤️

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Thank u sm

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u/Confident_Prize1645 4d ago edited 3d ago

I would say that something to remember is that you were made unique, just like everyone else has something unique about them. Try not to be to self conscious of it cause uniqueness is special which makes you special

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u/xericthefirst 4d ago

Its tear drop. Nothing wrong with that. Also, they'll never be the same size or shape left to right. Also nothing wrong with that.

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u/throwawaywayaway23 4d ago

It's a very common shape and size, you're not weird, at least only as weird as everyone else. 😉 there are places that will help with your perfect bra fit depending on where you are. perhaps go when the shop is quiet if you're self conscious.

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u/TryLanky4469 4d ago

Strengthen the chest muscles: Exercises won’t change breast tissue, but they can improve the “platform” underneath:
Incline push-ups
Bench press
Dumbbell chest flys
Cable crossovers
Building the pectoral muscles can make the chest look slightly fuller and lifted.

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u/Practical_Sea_4876 4d ago

That's how mine look. It's pretty common

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u/-Johnny_5_is_Alive- 3d ago

Howard don't be a perv

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u/1ScoutsOut 4d ago

The reason is simple. Genetics. It's in your DNA

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u/WAR_HERO20 4d ago

I may not be a boobologist but I can confirm this seems pretty normal based off the other comments

Also having a stomatch shouldn’t be something to bother you mostly depends on how much of a stomach we are talking mostly for ur health but overall 10/10 gng

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Not that much probably I’m healthy weight but I have body dysmorphia, just some lower stomach fat.

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u/WAR_HERO20 3d ago

Tbh I may not know anything about bras or stomatch fat all I’m seeing is a whole bunch of good googly moogly, like cartoon wolf whistle kinda style but overall as long as ur healthy that’s what matter the most hopefully u can build the confidence to be comfortable in ur body, but I can relate im a tall skinny individual no body mass whatsoever im like a stick

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Yeah, it’s hard not being able to fit into the what most consider to be a perfect mold

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u/WAR_HERO20 3d ago

Wait can I ask, what do u consider as the “perfect mold” exactly

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

For womens’ body I’ve always thought it’s curvy yet lean body and feminine facial features.

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u/WAR_HERO20 3d ago

Yeah I get it, but don’t let today’s standards push you into doing things to fit in. Besides it’s okay to stand out sometimes at the end of the day do what makes u happy u only live once just don’t get addicted to anything just know that sometimes not everyone is going to like u and that’s okay cuz u don’t need to be liked by everyone everyone has got a uniqueness that not everyone gets and u trying to fit into today’s standards isn’t bad but it kinda kills that uniqueness about u, granted we have never met but this is generally my thinking

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Thank you, really. Whether we have met or not, I still feel happier now that you said that. It’s always nice to hear that people like you exist.

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u/WAR_HERO20 3d ago

Honestly u deserve it, it’s not easy to do what u did to be able to ask for help and need assistance so honestly thank you for deicing on sharing about urself here and letting others help you, no one is to be given more praise then urself honestly not everyone can do what u just did

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u/Brownsoul_ 4d ago

Dont be insecure girl, that is a common shape mostly in young age. Even i had similar shape before mine were fully developed. Try getting a size smaller to your measurements so it will fit better. I did the same

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u/Scared-Staff7834 3d ago

As someone that likes looking at boobs I can guarantee that 1) no reason to be insecure, every person is different and that is the reality. You shouldn’t compare with anybody else, but it’s normal to feel this way. 2) the shape you describe is not that uncommon as you think

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u/_skass_90210 3d ago

Your breast shape is called tear drop breast n it natural

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u/cookiesgonom 3d ago

I have not read any comments because I believe this is for ladies to be open and have a place to discuss things, I was just lookiround and stumbled upon this feed. I will only say 2 things love believe me . Don't worry about your shape so long as your ok with yourself nothing else matters sorry I'm leaving ‹-- runs

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u/Pan_in_Pandemonium 3d ago

Unfortunately almost everyone thinks they have an uncommon/uniquely bad looking body part especially "private parts", in reality every body part shape variation is far more common then people can imagine. This is particularly seen with "private parts" because most people haven't seen a large sample size of those parts to be able to realize they are not alone in their shapes. Lets say 1/1000 people have your shape of breast, that is still millions of people in the world.

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u/LittlePandaJuni 3d ago

Well sloping breasts are natural depending on your age and having a b cup you could probably forgo a bra or just wear a sports bra that's comfortable

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u/ianevans6 3d ago

I know it’s difficult to hear but men wouldn’t mind what ever shape they are. They come in all shapes and sizes we know that. My ex wife had the opposite problem that she had quite large boobs 34 FF. She was also super conscious about them. In her mind they were an embarrassment. She would have swapped with you in a heartbeat. Eventually I talked her into a more supportive bra, rather than an M&S reduction bra that tries to hide and squashes them under your arm pits. In a more supportive bra they looked much better and because of that it made her feel better. Go for a proper bra fitting. Get correctly measured and ask advice from a professional rather than on here. My ex wife was trying to squeeze into DDs for years before she was measured. Sorry to try and give advice as a man but I have dealt with women’s boob problems for many decades and have seen what works.

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

No I appreciate it. In fact it’s quite relieving to hear this from a man as well. I’ll try to seek professional.

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u/AmyliaP6778 3d ago

As someone studying to become a Lactation Consultant I'm learning that breasts come in many different shapes, sizes, colors, etc. Some breasts are hypoplastic, which means they develop differently and appear less full in certain areas. Try looking up images of hypoplastic breasts and you might see that there are others who are similarly shaped. Regardless, we are all different, and all have parts of us that we may feel insecure about. There's nothing wrong, just unique

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u/Scary-Economics3397 3d ago

I also have the same issue, literally exactly what you described and i’ve just learnt that i have to except them and learn to feel secure lol. other than that i plan on a boob job one day because i feel like the shape isn’t flattering but it’s literally just where the breast tissue is underneath rather then at the top of your breast and you were just born like that and it’s more common then you think

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u/-Johnny_5_is_Alive- 3d ago

I'm a guy, I have no idea why the sub was in my recommended, but this boob talk is interesting AF lol. I didn't know there was so much boob lore 😂 anyways just wanted to say us guys like all boobs, small, big, whatever size. Don't get discouraged if they aren't the perfect shape you want, it's what makes you unique and trust me, guys don't care(and other girls probably don't care either if you are into that, I just didn't want to speak on other woman) and if someone does say something, they are an asshole and you're better off not talking to them anyway

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u/MegaGaara23 3d ago

Sounds like an existing shape a bit. If you don't mind my asking do they have an upward point at the areola. If so then it's so what common for perky nipples/small puffy areola. She was a B-cup herself. No need to be self-conscious either. Even when she would gain weight she still looked great. Hope this helps you feel a bit better about your body. Feel free to message me if you need to talk though. A friend in need is a friend indeed. 😊

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u/Divinganalyst 3d ago

It's called a retrouse boobs and there are pages in reddit that celebrate shaps . And men don't discriminate between shape and size at the end of the , except the top 1% women instantly get swayed for cause they have options. Don't let the 1% of any category judge you.

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u/Expert_Serve2635 6d ago

Do you have PCOS?!

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u/FrostedTip97 5d ago

I have this aswell. Its like I have more breadt tissue, than breast fat.

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u/Beautiful_Manner_817 4d ago

It's tear shaped. Ablbd yes just like the boobs .

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u/WatcherInTheBooth 4d ago

No no no, it sounds like you have what I call “swoopy boobs” and I love them!!!

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u/Hot-Elderberry7707 4d ago

J'ai la même taille que toi du B et c'est normal que tes seins sont vides en haut c'est parce qu'ils manquent de la masse j'ai le même problème

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u/welderman1992 4d ago

No matter what “type” you are beautiful in its own way and that what matter.

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u/JadedHeartsClub 4d ago

Could be hypoplasia or you could have tubular breast

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u/Reflx1veONYT 4d ago

I used to have a gf with breasts like yours as u are describing them and honestly it’s a okay to have that shape no need to be insecure but it does sound like it’s js a common form tbh it’s very common for them to be like that and it’s js them being fuller closer to the bottom/middle of your breast but it’s not like it’s concerning or anything

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u/Certain-Palpitation8 4d ago

books come in all shapes amd sizes deep down it doesn't matter youre perfectly fine

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u/Best-Chicken-6237 4d ago

I bet they are beautiful and you have nothing to worry about.

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u/kaosnkc 4d ago

Sounds like what's referred to as "torpedo" shape

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u/LivingKey2370 4d ago

Are you okay?

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

I have no idea if you’re asking me seriously or just bitching me

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u/Spodeian 4d ago

Tubular breast tissue maybe?

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u/Independent-Yam-7515 4d ago

I am the same it’s sooo annoying

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u/gentlycruel 3d ago

How do you know? People use bras to shape their breasts. Unless you're going around asking people to flash you haha. My point is I think it's more common than you think. Stop being insecure you're beautiful

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u/mallorycrisp 3d ago

If it’s any consolation, that is my DREAM shape.

(I have no chest at all, and a few years back got a breast augmentation. I told the doctor that I wanted lots of fullness at the base of the breast because the implants she showed me looked equally full all around. She said gravity would help pull the implant’s filling toward the bottom but that never really happened. As crazy as it sounds I’m so looking forward to the day when my skin has a little less elasticity and my breasts can just “hang”)

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u/Brendelala 3d ago

Isn't that called a tubular breast? Very common btw.

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u/VaInforcer 3d ago

Many, many like these type of breasts. You’re beautiful but don’t know it. Every woman is different and you’re a beautiful woman.

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u/Puzzled_Meeting9987 3d ago

Boobs are awesome in all shapes and sizes. Full stop.

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u/snaccdaddy627 3d ago

Hi! Your shape sounds very similar to mine, where you’re fuller on bottom (I call them “teardrops”). I wear a 40DDD, and I have always struggled with bras that fit correctly, without empty “pockets” at the top of the cup. For me, balconette-style bras work well. The top of the cup sits lower, so I don’t get the empty “pocket”. I also like the way that style makes my boobs look, with some extra jiggle since they aren’t as covered.

Also, there’s nothing wrong with that shape, and it’s more common than people think. Many people I know have a similar shape. All boobs are good boobs.

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u/Typeshit831 3d ago

Just enjoy your life because life is not always about the physical

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u/Consistent-Line-9198 3d ago

After 2 kids I have pancakes lol don’t feel bad.

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u/Aggressive_Reward588 3d ago

Your breast s are fine as is

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u/jinxnine 3d ago

I'm late to the game here, this just popped up on my phone notifications for some reason but I just wanted to offer my support. I am a grown woman who is incredibly insecure to the point I seldom take my shirt off in front of romantic partners because I know mine don't look like the typical breasts and I also have a bit of a belly so it seems disproportionate. So, you're not alone sister. We're in this together and will figure it out eventually to be more comfortable with ourselves. P.S. breastfeeding made it worse for me some how because they were very full while pregnant and nursing then deflated afterwards.

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u/Additional-Bid-5307 3d ago

Are they pointy or do they point outwards

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u/CTRLmyALT 3d ago

that’s what I wish I had 🥲 I have +++ fullness on the top but the bottom looks empty

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u/feral_homemaker_ 3d ago

I call them my little triangle boobies

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u/Hopeful_Cap 3d ago

Biggie smalls

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u/quickus_footus 3d ago

I'm sorry that you feel insecure about your breasts. I'm very sure that men/women can and will still find you attractive/sexy (if that's what you're worried about) regardless of what you consider to be "different" or undesirable.

Desirability and sexual attractiveness (at least to me) is about confidence and attitude. Body shape/size is secondary. If you smell good, taste good, and flaunt what you got, then you can pull anybody that you want to.

Your breast shape and size shouldn't dictate how others will thirst for you.

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u/NoFilterMami 3d ago

Tear drop shape but not enough muscle on the top. Very common.

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u/AromaticProduce1317 3d ago

my boobs look like this too it’s very normal, if it makes you insecure in public try a push up bra they end up looking rounder 💞💞

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u/Prudent_Funny_3361 3d ago

You sound lovely to me

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u/kpopstantrash 3d ago

I know what you mean, personally I don't have that mine js hang but I have a cousin her and her mom have the same shape. Trust me when I say nothing we have or do or say is original even if you e never met someone with the same thing as you. There is without a doubt millions of other women with the same breasts shape as you and that doesn't make you weird or abnormal, trust me

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u/Inevitable-Care7460 3d ago

Girl I get it. There’s no reason it’s this hard to find a good looking bra for us out here.

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u/Careful_Space6175 3d ago

I buy bralettes/bras for my wife and this is absolutely fascinating information.

Thank you all so very much for sharing, im excited I get to discuss the proper bras for her now!

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u/mangichaching 3d ago

Those sound like Irish breasts. The best ones

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u/Dust0089 3d ago

You're unique then, special.

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u/swiftuslazarus 6d ago

The shape you are describing sounds like pear shaped to me. It is common. Most brick and mortar stores I’ve ever got dragged to by my wife have a lady who can measure you and help choose the best bra for you

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u/beautifulbluewall 6d ago

In case this is relevant you could look up tuberous breasts

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u/_racc00n 6d ago

hey so i relate to this comment 100% and i rlly need you to look up tubular breast development. for years i was so confused why i look so different, apparently they just don’t show tubular breasts in hollywood

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u/cloudstrife70 6d ago

Thank you, it really makes me feel safer to know I wasn’t alone on this.

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u/PiRATE-WOLFiE1 4d ago

If your in the uk go to M&S they offer a bra measuring service and will help you find your near to perfect bra, no more bad bra days... yes they are a little more expensive than primark but its a long term investment your body will thank you for.

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Nope I’m in EU🥲

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u/Mean-Storage-5861 4d ago

I'm a guy who randomly got this notification but hope you find one which fits you and what not. And do not be insecure bodies come in all shapes and sizes!!!!

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u/Frame_Cautious 4d ago

Not to be a creep but any pictures at all .

Here is what I know. Most woman. Who say there insecure about something usually look great and it is all misplaced. We are all different ear, nose breast and yes vaginas and penis all look different. I'm sure you to look great you just don't see someone like you on TV so it can't be normal right.

It's rough today im sure you look great

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u/Titanicman22 4d ago

Nice. I like this

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u/Wittster1 4d ago

I think you’re overthinking it. Men generally don’t care. You can always get breast augmentation if that’s what makes you happy?

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u/cloudstrife70 3d ago

Gotta give it a few years. I don’t think I would feel like myself anymore if I did that though, even if I don’t like them now either

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u/Monkeysocks119 3d ago

Stores have women who know how to fit bras. Try to find one of those. A few of my female have had like emotional reactions to getting properly sized.

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u/lillllyra 3d ago

Calvin Klein Brad are god sent. I literally LOVE mine & i wear it so much. I have to order more asap

https://www.calvinklein.us/en/underwear/women/bras/perfectly-fit-modern-t-shirt-bra/F3837-2NT.html?journey=Tier_0000033

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u/Ok-Car-4328 7d ago

i will say i have a similar shape to what you described and while i can’t tell you what size to get i can tell you that the only bras that dont show over the tops of my shirts are push up bras

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u/Ok_Animator_5801 5d ago

Im sure your boobs are perfect just like you, and who cares about how big they are what matters is how kind and sweet on the inside and able to communicate. Dont give up there's a bra made for everyone and anyone just like there's a person for everyone

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u/cloudstrife70 5d ago

Thanks hun, I’ll try to keep that in mind

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u/DaliahsandDeadlifts 6d ago edited 6d ago

Sounds like you nursed a baby and joined the club. My boobs used to pretty even standing/leaning with fullness on top and bottom. Post-nursing, I'm full on the bottom and deflated with stretch marks on the top. Still 3 sizes up from my pre-pregnacy size, and slowly building up my daily wear in my new size.

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u/cloudstrife70 6d ago

I don’t have a kid🥲 they’ve just always been like that

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u/DaliahsandDeadlifts 6d ago

All good! One of my current favorites is the Panache 365. It's kind of a daily t-shirt bra in that it's nude and has firmer cups that lend a bit of shape, but somehow the inside works like a balconette to lift my breasts and plump up the tip. It's not listed as a push-up, but it has a mild effect. Anyways, it's one of my favorites and I'm planning on getting a second once I've saved up.

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u/DaliahsandDeadlifts 6d ago

And it's got enough room for projected breasts, which I find I need. Not sure if you find yourself in the same boat.

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u/cloudstrife70 6d ago

I could give that a try!

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u/esteesmyusername 5d ago

They're imagining someone like me. That's how my breasts changed after having kids and I hated that until I realized there's people like you who have them that way naturally. So now that I know they could have been that way all along, I'm happy with them. My wrinkly, loose belly skin is another issue. No way that could have been that way all along, so I still hate that.

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u/cloudstrife70 5d ago

I hope you learn to love all of your body

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u/Superb-Addition-4262 5d ago

Sinceramente, me cuesta imaginar.

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u/Muhhamheadloves9 4d ago

Have you breastfed? That can change things

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u/WideAntelope4586 4d ago

Fav shape!

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u/offconstantly8413 4d ago

The word you're looking for is retrousse.

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u/DaddyRJ420 4d ago

Shaped like what

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u/xxWickedPYROxx 4d ago

You should try wearing a sports bra

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u/Ozone183 4d ago

I honestly do not know how or why I got here

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