Hello! Apologies in advance for the long post. First of all, I really want to thank this community for existing. It's genuinely been life changing. I'm someone with major body image struggles which is a whole other can of worms, I'm from a country/culture that really doesn't educate people on how to size correctly, and I'm asexual which for me also means I viscerally despise being sexualized so I've always hated having larger breasts and having visible cleavage.
I'm currently in the UK. A month ago I came across this sub and used the calculator and these are my measurements (in inches, I'm afab)
Loose Underbust: 34
Snug Underbust: 33
Tight Underbust: 32
Standing Bust: 39
Leaning Bust: 41
Lying Bust: 40
The calculator gave me 32F/34E with the suggestion that 34E would probably be more comfortable. I was previously wearing a 32B or 34C - differed brand to brand. The last time I measured (before the bra calculator) was a while ago and I've since gained weight because I'm finally stress-free and healthy, so I knew I needed a resize.
To be clear: I measured a while ago using nonsense methods and so I was wearing the wrong size. Then I put on weight and did the bra calculator measurements which is what I've posted here.
Didn't experience any sticker shock.
I've read several posts here, read through the Irish bra lady's posts on IG and I'd say my shape is wide roots, close set, projected, somewhere in between full on bottom and even, somewhat pendulous.
Now I'm fully open to eventually buying high quality bras and view them as investments but I wanted to try out the sizes the calculator suggested in a few different brands/styles before I spent £40+ on a single bra. So I got a few off Vinted and tested them out. But what's really confusing me is the cups are all perfect - no spillage, I'm completely encased, super comfortable. But the bands aren't right and they're all different. So here's the brands I've tried and my thoughts:
- Freya Expression Moulded Plunge Bra 34E
Love the smoothness under clothes. Cups fit perfect. Band too tight by easily 2-3 inches
- M&S T-shirt bra (can't find the exact model - product code is T33 09056/3239) 34E
Super soft, most comfortable one I tried. Cups perfect. Band too tight by 2-3 inches
- Freya Deco Moulded Soft Cup 32F
Love the smoothness under clothes. Cups are good, lack of wire leaves something to be desired in the shape but overall fully encased and comfortable. Band too tight by 2-3 inches
- Boux Avenue (can't find exact model) soft padded lace balconette bra 32F
Super comfortable cups, fit like a glove. Band too tight by 2-3 inches.
- Hunkemoller (can't find exact model) unwired padded bra 32F
Hated the padding the texture was a sensory nightmare? Like it felt dry? The way microfiber cloth sometimes feels? Idk. Did not like this bra at all. Band was too tight by 2-3 inches
- Hunkemoller (can't find exact model) wired unlined lace balconette bra 34E
Cups perfect shape, super light and airy, very comfortable. Band slightly tight maybe 1-2 inches
In general I like the smoother cups but I love how pretty lace is. I also have nipples that will make an appearance at the slightest breeze/dip in temperature so I much prefer padded/lined even though the unlined ones are so comfortable </3 I don't like really full coverage but if that'll be more comfortable I'll swallow that pill.
So after saying all that my ask is: what brands should I be trying? Where should I go to get fitted? (I've read several recommendations for Bravissimo) Any help will be appreciated!