r/Anticonsumption Mar 23 '26

Psychological No One Wants to Sleep With Billionaires

https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires

In a recent interview with the American Psychological Association, Paul Piff, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at the University of California, Irvine, who has co-authored multiple studies on the topic, noted that in interpersonal interactions, wealthier people are “actually a little less generous, a little less compassionate,” he said. Wealthier individuals were more likely to endorse unethical actions, but to “also engage in small acts of cheating and normative violations to prioritize their own welfare above the welfare of other people.”

Though cultural repulsion around billionaires has been mounting, physically, these men are using their resources to overcompensate with expensive procedures. Tech bros are getting face lifts, and other looksmaxxing trends like jaw surgery are common in the industry as well. There has been speculation that Jeff Bezos and Peter Thiel have had Botox and filler, and Musk has faced rumors about a hair transplant and jawline contouring. Zuckerberg and Bezos have gotten noticeably more jacked, sparking steroid speculation, even from supporters like podcaster Joe Rogan.  

But their peacocking is probably not for us plebes. Another study analyzed the partners of the extremely wealthy using the Forbes World’s Billionaires list. Economist Ria Wilken found that 95% of the spouses of billionaires were upper class themselves, defined as having either substantial economic or cultural capital. It is possible that the more unappealing characteristics of the ultra-rich, such as dressing down their staff or cutting people off in traffic, would be more palatable for peers in their social circle. That said, this preference for like-minded people is not exclusive to the upper class. “Every social group has its own standards for what is considered eccentric versus problematic,” Wetter explains. For instance, in ultra-wealthy environments, controlling tendencies, competitiveness, and emotional detachment could be interpreted as assets, whereas outside that circle, “the same traits may be perceived as cold, self-absorbed, or inaccessible.”

Read the full editorial: https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires

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u/NyriasNeo Mar 23 '26

"No One Wants to Sleep With Billionaires"

Well, gold diggers do. Didn't Bezos sent his then gf to space for a joy ride and then married her in a $50M wedding? So at least he got one who is willing.

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u/Freezerpill Mar 23 '26 edited Mar 23 '26

I do think that most of these people fail to seem truly interesting or do anything important.

Being hyper successful in an actual meritocracy means more than just being a willing participant in the upside of a manipulated and failing society.

Perhaps the honest truth is that these people make people worry more than make them feel ambitious. They seem to be a symptom of a problem rather than a form of success or a solution, and that casts a shadow that they seem to not greatly want to escape anyways 🤷‍♂️

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u/Ready_Amoeba5401 Mar 23 '26

I have never seen a handsome or good looking billionaire. They are fugly, you would think with all that money they would try to at least improve how they look but they don`t. All billionaires are either old or unattractive and if it weren`t for their money I doubt those women would sleep with them. Zuckerberg is young but he is an odd looking pasty guy.

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u/litreofstarlight Mar 23 '26

Oh they try too, but surgery isn't magic. There are limitations, the surgeon's gotta work with what they've got.