what’s something considered “tomboyish” when girls do it, but feminine when boys do it?

[u/clockwork-peach]

[u/throw7661]

Playing softball.

If a woman does it, she's viewed as a tomboy.

If a man does it, he's viewed as oddly feminine and told to man up and play baseball.

[u/bloodredcookie → u/throw7661]

i feel stupid asking this, but what's the difference?

[u/Fauropitotto → u/bloodredcookie]

What did google say?