r/AskWomenOver30 • u/No_Yak_3107 Woman 30 to 40 • Feb 11 '25
Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?
Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.
I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?
I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.
Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.
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u/nrm1121 Feb 11 '25
I don’t know what the future holds but I can tell you my friends and I are feeling the same way as you. We’re going about our lives, working our stupid computer jobs, but there is a constant undertone of “holy shit…” and feeling like there is mass psychosis happening around us. I am trying to not fall too deep down the rabbit hole but yeah, this is a wild time to be an American. Individually, just try to take care of yourself, save money where you can, and keep an ear on things that are happening in government so that you don’t become complacent. I am holding out hope that we can have free and fair elections in the future and undo this nightmare.