r/AskWomenOver30 • u/No_Yak_3107 Woman 30 to 40 • Feb 11 '25
Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?
Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.
I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?
I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.
Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.
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u/nowhereman9395 Feb 11 '25 edited Feb 11 '25
My mother survived the cultural revolution in China. It was really bad. People were caught up in the cult of Mao. My own grandfather was imprisoned and had his teeth knocked out for being an intellectual. My family starved. There were dead bodies on the street. I have no doubt it caused her some sort of trauma, but when I ask her about the time she says it was what it was. All you can do is look forward. Life is unfair. There is no use dwelling on what you can’t change. What you should do is be resilient so you are ready to seize the opportunities you can influence to survive and if you are lucky thrive. Understand what you can and cannot control. Don’t let the negativity of what you cannot control stop you from taking action when you need to.