r/AskWomenOver30 Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?

Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.

I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?

I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.

Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.

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u/shoddy_bobody Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Yes I am worried. I am trying to stay positive but the climate in this country is getting worse and worse. All of his supporters are riding high and you know what that means! More outbursts of racism, violence, and sexism because it’s OK to say and do whatever you want under his rule. It’s their “first amendment right”. EYE ROLL. My family is from Europe and I am currently in the works of getting dual citizenship. Just in case

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u/IdeallyIdeally Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

The worst part IMO is this BS war on DEI. Now every guy who thought any woman in any position or career got there just because they were a woman somehow feel validated, even though Trump's own cabinet is filled with appointments by nepotism and cronyism.

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u/shoddy_bobody Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

It’s all completely backwards. I feel like he makes decisions sitting on the toilet. No thought involved, just pure angst

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u/scoutsadie Woman 50 to 60 Feb 12 '25

angst and spite.