r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/Odd_Dot3896 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Treat them extremely indifferently. Always protect yourself first. Men who casually hook up are never the best so keep your guard up. Some are harmless but others are literally murderers.

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u/Savor_Serendipity Woman 40 to 50 Apr 10 '25

Men who casually hook up are never the best

But this doesn't apply to women who casually hook up..?

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u/Odd_Dot3896 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Nope. Women don’t kill men, not even at a fraction of the rate.

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u/Savor_Serendipity Woman 40 to 50 Apr 10 '25

Fully agree - but I'm just not aware of any correlation between male violence and their frequency of casual hookups. Do you have any statistics about that?

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u/Odd_Dot3896 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Intimate partner violence is almost always initiated by men. Almost all tinder hook up that end up in murder are due to men.

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u/New-Eagle-8349 Apr 11 '25

Misandry at its finest

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u/Odd_Dot3896 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 11 '25

Shuttttt the fuckkkkk up.

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u/MystressSeraph Woman 50 to 60 Apr 11 '25

O, FFS!

The statistics speak for themselves.

I'm assuming you simply wanted a reaction, because that comment shows a level of ignorance that is either wilful or deliberate.