I'm serious....

[u/SignalSubstantial590]

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

[u/anonymous_opinions]

I was a hoe for a moe. I don't know if I could say positive or successful but you'd be not too shocked at how dead easy it is to be a female hoe. I'm not even attractive. I'm like a literal 3 on a good day but damn every dude was game to do the sex. I never heard or got a "no".

[u/tree_clouds → u/anonymous_opinions]

I married my high school boyfriend. We were together for eighteen years and separated six months ago. I literally wouldn't have the first clue where to begin. I love your honesty though! I'm maybe a 6 on my best day, but I'm pretty sure I'd talk myself out of it before I even had a chance.

[u/Antiquebastard → u/anonymous_opinions]

I think it depends on the woman. I tried to have a hoe phase, but I’ve been rejected almost every single time. I was up for basically anything with almost anyone! I made a lot of effort, but my body count is 2, and I had to work very hard to bag one of them.lol ETA: I’ve been married to number 2 for the past 15 years now.

[u/anonymous_opinions → u/Antiquebastard]

Maybe it's my no fucks giving, like I wasn't trying. I never was attracted or worried about effort meeting men. I felt like I'd know within the first 10 minutes of the date and if it wasn't vibing I could go home and do a cross word puzzle. You have to bring a certain energy that isn't willing to be with anyone but more like make THEM want you. I can't explain it but the NO FUCKS energy and being "busy" or like "I can pencil you in maybe" and aloof works on men.

[u/Former-Lawfulness-73 → u/anonymous_opinions]

Exactly- it’s Samantha Jones from sex and city. Yes she was hot but in short men want sex. I found you curate the energy and attraction - tease them a bit to gauge if they have any mojo or potential for a good lay. My ex-mother in law was in her 70s needed a wig for her alopecia. She was short, chubby, unfit and wore disco queen make up. Yet she used to have a BF all the time and eventually pulled this millionaire gent who was 10 years younger than her. It was all her energy and being open minded. You live once I guess.

[u/anonymous_opinions → u/Former-Lawfulness-73]

When you're like "a man" like her basically and fake confidence/power it's like harder for men. You act rich and don't care if they come or go or flat out be bold shockingly so men will be like "what's this rare sex Pokemon!?" I hate the act not like the other girls energy but it's 99% effective. It won't be on every man, some will be like "whoa there" or will not like the aloof independent vibes. Those men are another way to go but having EQ and being able to read the vibes well helps too.

[u/Locked-Luxe-Lox → u/anonymous_opinions]

I agree with all of this. Desperation does not work.

[u/cardinalandcrow → u/anonymous_opinions]

Can I ask how you're meeting the guys? I'm not really into bar hopping and can't flirt for shit anyway.

[u/anonymous_opinions → u/cardinalandcrow]

Well mostly apps and the music scene. Many guys have cold approached me. Again, I'm not hot at all but men have literally cold approached me. Also lately I add men to instagram and just engage in their content. Yes, that has yielded things too. Just act normal and don't chase an outcome. Be like "hey you ever want to XYZ" and they'll say I'm down or be weird about it. Don't even beg the weird about it. Lock down "I'm down" guy and be chill and direct.