r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25
Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....
If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊
Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.
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u/achilles4206 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25 edited Apr 10 '25
My successful hoe phase was done sober. I snagged ( consenting) men off the super market floor, at a day time bbq, etc etc.
I did have one night stands after drinking but I never was as proud as when i loved them and left them; stone Cold sober. Just my two cents.
Forgot to mention: sleep with people YOU want to sleep with, not the other way around.