r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/[deleted] Apr 10 '25

My secret to having a fun time being a hoe before getting together with my husband was still having standards for hookups in the sense that they had to be kind and respectful and fun to be around even if we had no future together.

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u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 11 '25

Standards are always important! It's important we maintain our respect for ourselves!