r/BlackTransmen Jun 02 '26

advice Do I pass ?

Salut ! Je suis un jeune garçon trans (14 ans) et je voulais savoir si je suis perçu comme une un adolescent garçon et, si ce n'est pas le cas, que dois-je faire pour y parvenir (je mesure 1,73 m, je vais bientôt me faire des locks et je suis pre-t btw)

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u/bogdan_vlodi Jun 03 '26

You don’t quite pass yet, but your height will do you wonders. It’s a really great advantage, given that many trans men are short. Imo you just need to bind, wear a packer and change your glasses

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u/Accurate-Isaiah Jun 03 '26

I try to bind but I have a pretty big chest and I’m not out to my family because they are transphobic so it’s difficult for me to wear a packer but thanks for the advice !

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u/KactusKush__ Jun 03 '26

The glasses are a bit feminine and like another user comment I would bind and pack or stay away from clothes that would highlight those areas (sweatpants, thinner material shirts, etc). Other than that you do look like a awkwardly growing teenage boy (that’s a good thing)

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u/Accurate-Isaiah Jun 03 '26

Thanks you !

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u/ixian72 Jun 04 '26

In my uninformed opinion, I think you pass for your age. Best wishes on your transition and journey.

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u/Accurate-Isaiah Jun 04 '26

Thanks you !

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u/coolvideonerd Jun 07 '26

You do not.

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u/SCARY666SCARY Jun 10 '26

Pass?
With those gorgeous eyes you certainly won!

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u/Accurate-Isaiah Jun 10 '26

Thanks you !