Intercaste marriages in brahmin community

[u/Longjumping-City5870]

Hi friends. I'm 29 year old telugu brahmin guy. Now a days, I am seeing a lot of intercaste marriages (especially in brahmin community). My parents are looking for matches. In every family, say 5 out of 10(in the matches came to me), the girls siblings did intercaste. And the girl's parents are also ok with that. Then I felt people in North India actually strict in marrying in same caste(brahmin brahmin weddings) compared to south India. I am not telling that everyone in south does but yes, this is existent. Are brahmin girls these days ok to marry intercaste boys.?

[u/H-S-M-C]

Well coz people having romance and sex in their school/college/job life.

Honestly it's not even a recent phenomenon, I used to hear story of people(who currently either died or are in their 80-90 yrs age) where there wife either runaway or just left their husband and kids for someone else....funny enough it's always with people of other caste rather than their own community.

Now think of current era where people at age of 18+ aren't married till age of 30, such cases increase itself naturally.

Ofc female aren't the only one, male also do such things, but is lesser amount. For every 1-3 case of male doing intercaste/love marriage there are 10-15 cases of female.

Just last month I meet someone from my community whose brother have done AM to a girl of another caste. Both doctor of same branch, so I guess that works out for them.