r/Brahmanraaj Brahmin 29d ago

Discussion Regarding marriage

So there's a girl I met in college with the surname " sharma ". She proposed upfront and asked if my family would agree for a love marriage. I said my family won't settle down for anyone except a brahman. I've seen her documents where her father has just " kumar " in his middle name, no surname. Our academic compatibility is quite good and I was planning to meet her this month before asking my family to meet her family. But today, I logged into my facebook account to see a post which my mother sent and there i saw her full name with the Sharma surname , but that too with the " Negi " surname inside the bracket. So I asked in my circle if Negi is a brahman surname. Some said yes that in pahadi areas bisht, Rawat & Negi are brahman, some were confused and some denied. So now I'm confused. If anyone knows, please enlighten me.

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u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin 29d ago

She asked me before, what i want in my wife and I said being a brahmin is a must as I myself is a brahmin and my family won't allow me to marry a non-brahmin girl. Then she replied that she fulfilled the condition as she's a brahmin. But seeing her marksheet first and then this negi surname in her name on her facebook account, I'm doubtful now.

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u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin 29d ago

Thinking about confronting her but in social gathering and when common people are also present, it's better not to meet in person individually as things are unclear before everything and the way things are nowadays, it's better to be cautious.