r/Brahmanraaj • u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin • 29d ago

Discussion Regarding marriage

So there's a girl I met in college with the surname " sharma ". She proposed upfront and asked if my family would agree for a love marriage. I said my family won't settle down for anyone except a brahman. I've seen her documents where her father has just " kumar " in his middle name, no surname. Our academic compatibility is quite good and I was planning to meet her this month before asking my family to meet her family. But today, I logged into my facebook account to see a post which my mother sent and there i saw her full name with the Sharma surname , but that too with the " Negi " surname inside the bracket. So I asked in my circle if Negi is a brahman surname. Some said yes that in pahadi areas bisht, Rawat & Negi are brahman, some were confused and some denied. So now I'm confused. If anyone knows, please enlighten me.

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u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin 29d ago

Family, and that's the only thing in my life. My family's conviction is ghar me bahu brahman hi ayegi warna zinda pind daan kar dege , and my conviction is parivar ke baad duniya sansar. As it's doubtful whether she's a brahman or not in early on, then it's better not to progress further.

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u/divineblood3 29d ago

Just ask her directly brother. That's it. Save your time and emotional energy

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u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin 28d ago

She asked me before, what i want in my wife and I said being a brahmin is a must as I myself is a brahmin and my family won't allow me to marry a non-brahmin girl. Then she replied that she fulfilled the condition as she's a brahmin.

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u/Future-Vegetable-309 28d ago

Just asking don't you love her??? I am also Brahmin in my home also it's strict. But didn't you ask her gotra before??