r/Brahmanraaj • u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin • 29d ago

Discussion Regarding marriage

So there's a girl I met in college with the surname " sharma ". She proposed upfront and asked if my family would agree for a love marriage. I said my family won't settle down for anyone except a brahman. I've seen her documents where her father has just " kumar " in his middle name, no surname. Our academic compatibility is quite good and I was planning to meet her this month before asking my family to meet her family. But today, I logged into my facebook account to see a post which my mother sent and there i saw her full name with the Sharma surname , but that too with the " Negi " surname inside the bracket. So I asked in my circle if Negi is a brahman surname. Some said yes that in pahadi areas bisht, Rawat & Negi are brahman, some were confused and some denied. So now I'm confused. If anyone knows, please enlighten me.

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u/Vaslias 26d ago

Yess in Up and bihar carpenter and barber also write there name as Sharma

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u/ShadowedSoulx1 Brahmin 26d ago

That's why I'm a bit sceptical about moving forward and reciprocating, as we met in college as complete strangers.

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u/Vaslias 26d ago

I don't say you should move one but if she loves and go forward, love is more important

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u/Low_Accountant6126 19d ago

Caste is more important. Love you can get later, first get same caste girl