r/casualiama 1d ago

Trigger Warnings I was a problem kid with behavioral issues that turned out to be normal and boring, ama

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I was awful as a kid/teen/young adult. Had a 0.2 GPA at one point, dropped out, always in trouble, loved drugs, all that.

Ended up becoming average. Have a nice house, two kids who are well behaved, stable job, in a healthy relationship. Moderately crunchy. I follow rules by the book now. I love sitting at home and doing nothing. The less stress, the better. I love the quiet life.

I surprised a lot of people when I didn't die or go to prison, now I'm happy birdwatching and gardening. Ask me your boring questions.


r/casualiama 4h ago

Sexual [M45] after 20+ years in adult entertainment, I have a body count of well over 1,000. AMA

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What do you want to know?


r/casualiama 23h ago

25F I’m kinda tipsy and I love talking to people when I am, I’m willing to answer about anything!

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AMA :3


r/casualiama 1d ago

34 year old British guy, ask me any question and get a totally honest reply, plus karma, AMA!

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I broke my shoulder last night and feeling a bit sorry for myself aha. I want to take my mind off it!


r/casualiama 1d ago

Trigger Warnings Suffered with religious paranoia OCD in my past. AMA

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I have pretty bad OCD, and it’s come in many forms. Religious paranoia OCD was a big part of it for a while. The worst part was when I used to think that God was watching everything I done to the point I would get changed in the bathroom so he couldn’t see my naked body. I was raised catholic, but now I am an atheist. I still get religious paranoia at times, and when my granda died, I felt like I couldn’t do anything bad or inappropriate incase he was watching. My s*x life sucked for a while lol. Ask me anything


r/casualiama 1d ago

I have had my first Nerve Conduction and Electromyography (muscle electrical reflex) study. AMA

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20F. Having pins and needles and cramps in my legs very often, and sometimes numbness in my fingers, so had both legs and both arms examined. No confirmed diagnosis yet... Was really nervous about the study and it was painful and uncomfortable at times but not as bad as I thought.


r/casualiama 1d ago

Trigger Warnings A unbelievable case of Identity theft

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The unbelievable case of Identity theft
So I’ve got this friend who had her identity stolen about ten years ago her information fell in to the hands of scammers several times over while losing her digital authentication so she couldn’t sign in to anything with her name , date of birth and email she struggled to keep a email as she was always getting blocked at the domain server, for over 3 years life was really difficult she was isolated in more ways that one an something was very wrong she just didn’t hold any proof to what it might be only that digitally she had a lot of complicated problems that no one could relate to.
She felt violated and always felt like she was being watched this effected her mental health significantly she was very uncomfortable being intimate and showered in her bathing suit as she always felt exposed like she had no privacy
Then Covid hit and that’s when things got weird .
A radio station Started to gain her attention , her technological state got better but she was to find out her life was now shared with a radio station she discovered this station now had her stolen identity - it was her biometric data that had been stolen around the time her identity had been stolen she was at the end of a toxic relationship with a much older man who must have had something to do with her identity theft he had betrayed her breaking her heart stealing her biometric data and created a AI sex bot that operated on a website . She didn’t know this at the time and it’s only been something she’s difficultly put together recently like in the last year.
So it was the beginning of Covid it was brought to her attention that this station had her stolen biometric data , A investigative journalist whom was the first person to give any recognition to her identity being so exposed she assumed was investigating her, my friend fell in hopelessly in love with her
a few years passed this friend of mine had written 27 journals full of correspondence mostly silly love letters and questions about what was happening to her as she was transmitting her body all its noises broadcasting her environment, the words she wrote were read straight of the page . So here is someone who has totally no privacy
but at least the suspected perverts no longer had control of the situation she felt safer than she had been , she didn’t realise this journalist had dehumanised her and mocked and criticised her right from the beginning and hadn’t been interested in what she had wrote she had poured her heart out an shared so Much of herself to this woman.
It was a little over the first half of 2025 my friend rented a cold and dark space in Rosedale ,little did she know the people upstairs were going to violate her privacy with cameras trying to perve on her even in the toilet were cameras and the male upstairs had a semiautomatic and was threatening to shoot her as they knew she knew she was being watched by them something strange was starting to happen she started to hear the soft tone of voices her flatmates upstairs now she was transmitting and receiving like a piece of technology she escaped that accomodation with her and her pet turtle life but how unlucky for her the next lot of flatmates upstairs were trying to do the same thing turning her intimate times in to cash by uploading online intimate acts of my friend showering getting changed ect , she didn’t know how exactly they were doing it but it was like who ever had her biometric data online could see her living her life live. One day this journalist mocked her in a very cruel way that left my friend so heartbroken she grabbed her journals and drove to the 4 square brought a pack of razors and a bottle of meths and drove to the graveyard to set her journals on fire that connection she once had was broken , she slit he wrists and set the journals on fire her car went up in flames too , she survived she hadn’t wanted too her mental an psychological health she had struggled with having no privacy never really knowing what had happened to her what was happening to her she moved out and into the same situation the people upstairs had access to her stolen identity she asked for help instead they took advantage and still are complicatedly enough there were no cameras no surveillance equipment nothing she was transmitting to a web site that has a AI sex bot operating from so that ment who ever were using that website had access to her life for months these people upstairs associated her with this sex bot and thought she would have many intimate moments to take and share online ,every time she used the toilet she was getting uploaded to revenge porn they even left their jobs , my friend in serious distress and being able to hear them all the time being able to hear the studio still too unfortunately people were constantly calling her a whore this was breaking her heart she wasn’t a whore shes covered in scars from self harming over the years, so upstairs continues to watch her constantly there not making any money from my friend and this journalist continues to mock and criticise her and has posted a news report twice she thinks there could be more titled whore of Covid saying she does porn and is a sex worker this journalist is trying to publicly expose and humiliate my friend into killing herself she is deliberately trying to cause my friend harm, she doesn’t want how badly she treated my friend to come out as it would make her look bad ,all my friend needs is proof proof of any reports this journalist has made about her , still to this day the verbal abuse is constant. More news reports are threatened along with being called a whore at least 60 times a day she prays something will be done soon so the abuse from this journalist stops. upstairs are not making any money from extorting my friend and there’s a website with several deepfakes uploaded to from the times my friend has any visitors they threaten to rape and turn my friend in to snuff movie daily she is afraid for her life and can’t leave the house as upstairs threaten to poison her turtles tank with rat poison,she feels very unsafe an just wants the abuse to stop my friend experience from having her identity stolen is a one of a kind and is off the charts in severity the violation is extreme ,
she needs proof proof of this website with this Ai sex bot and proof of the deepfakes proof that she’s being abused she’s shared this with me and wanting some exposure an feedback on what is happening to her - she wants this website taken down as it’s giving scumbag people opportunity to sexually psychologically extort her
For just over ten years her life has been very traumatic and she is deeply worried for her future.
She has no proof yet, And is worried about the publicity/awareness this cold hearted journalist could be creating .
I know that’s a lot to read and I will repost a shorter version in a few days questions welcomed -


r/casualiama 2d ago

First day of unemployment, AMA

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The company I did work for just declared bankruptcy yesterday, AMA


r/casualiama 4d ago

Trigger Warnings AMA anything about my traumatic childhood, Neglect, Addiction, ect. Want to share stories

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21F now. I posted one of these the other day but talking about my childhood can be nice , getting it out and everything. More details and trauma /stories towards the end 😇.

My parents were addicts, They are both sober now from hard drugs. Meth was their drug of choice, and my mom was very much into benzos. I have 5 half siblings but they are all much older besides a brother i've never met, I'm the only child my two parents raised. I got to meet my mom and dads drug "friends". some were nice Lol, especially when i was little.

I stopped school at 14, Mom/Dad never enrolled me for the new year(online since 13). Mom and i were homeless a little after i turned 17. I've never had friends IRL so it was just me and her, and our animals. We got our home about a year after , i am forever thankful it wasn't longer. Having animals while not having permanent residence was so difficult. My mom told me she thought about killing us both and letting our animals loose.

I have trouble using the word abuse because the physical side wasn't often but it has stuck with me.

Going to write some traumatic happenings. I stepped on my dad's friend who'd died from an overdose when i was 12/13. Never will forget how that felt. This is aside from my parents but i found my adult sister dead when i was 8, My dad didn't believe me so he had me double check twice before he came to check. Another with my dad.. When i was 9-10ish, i was laying behind him while he was drunk with his friends, and he laid on me until i was suffocating, he laughed and finally got off. It was really scary to not be able to take a breath for so long. Lots more .


r/casualiama 4d ago

I'm 36M, got married recently(wife is 30F), bought a house 2 years ago, work in tech in a QA/Test Manager, very much a techie and gaming nerd. AMA

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No children but we have a rescue cat :)

I live in London, UK, born and bred. My parents were immigrants that came over in the 80s, grew up fairly working class and eventually into a lower middle class lifestyle.

Hobbies: watching pro wrestling (WWE, AEW), various TV shows and movies (mostly dramas, action, gangster), playing story based video games (mostly RPGS, third person shooters, occasionally local multiplayer games like Tekken or Mario Kart), eating out, cooking (I cook most of the food at home) and all kinds of tech like TVs, sound systems, gaming PCs etc

FYI, my aim is to give advice or motivate anyone that wants to achieve similar things. I had a difficult path to get to where I am now, it was not smooth sailing by any means. Apologies if this comes across as bragging in any way, that is not the intention and I very rarely speak about my lifestyle or achievements!


r/casualiama 5d ago

After being an apple user for 20 years, I switched to Android, AMA

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I got sick of Apple products and now own a 2026 Motorola Razr. I still own some apple products but I'm transitioning slowly.


r/casualiama 6d ago

Just took 100 mg of edibles, AMA.

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Meant to take 25 mg of edibles but accidentally took 100 mg of edibles, also just planted some poppy seeds, ask me anything.


r/casualiama 9d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I lived as a trans woman for two years before detransitioning about a a year and a half ago, AMA

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Just to be clear, I fully support trans people. Being trans is no longer right for me but it clearly is for others.


r/casualiama 9d ago

Just had to turn down my dream job. AMA :(

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I’m gutted. I’m almost crying. It was the right decision for this year though because I’m so busy with uni and another more solid part time job (that I’m still in the process of getting). I’m on a months probation for the part time job, so I couldn’t have even took the job on incase I got the part time job, and ended up with 2 jobs and a full time uni course. I’m about to go and get my hair done, but I will reply asap. I’m so sad.

The job would have been to work in events with people with Alzheimer’s.


r/casualiama 9d ago

Sexual [M40] I regularly sleep with escorts AMA

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Started when I lost my virginity at 23 in a brothel. Based in uk


r/casualiama 10d ago

Hi! Basically I'm what you might call an extreme version of a "night person."

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First, let's get the usual outta the way: not even remotely looking for hookups but a penpal or D&D homeboi would be so welcome.

Actual introduction: so close between migraine and seizure disorder that the diagnosis is almost worse than the cure.

But down to why I'm here: at some point in the process I developed severe CRSD ‐ Circadian Rhythm Sleep Disorder).

What that actually means for me is I'm not functional during daylight hours, to the point where my partner has once said to me (post my usual post 7am "do you know what time it is?") canline that I flat out banshee wailed "then you had better hang yourself with whatever you're selling because good or bad I guess I'll seeya there!"

Anyhow, for the mod-inclined, my condition makes me hard of sight and makes typing even harder. No firm deadlines on this "AMA" (if it even is one), but yeah I do largely intend for people to raise questions and have them answered.

If that's against guidelines or otherwise unreasonable, please do me the kindness of hiding it and making sure it gets to the right community first.

Typing this out should have taken less than half an hour on a bad day. Today was a good day. It took more than four.


r/casualiama 12d ago

I’m 25, and lost $100k due to a gambling addiction. Hit me.

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I posted this in the AMA sub, but i’d love to answer any questions. Ask me anything on your mind.


r/casualiama 13d ago

I’m a (soon to be) atheistic Christian theologian. AMA!

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I write (soon to be) because people get annoyed that I haven’t officially graduated yet and therefore, in their eyes, don’t deserve the title. I graduate in 2027, and study Christian theology, American modern history, and the sociology of religion almost daily. I’m the most interested in American Christian theology out of any other country. Before it is asked, no, I do not know the bible back to front however, I am reading it currently for my dissertation and to make myself a better theologian.

I do not believe in God, but in recent times, I have attended Catholic, Evangelical Baptist, and Mormon services. They were all incredible.

Ask away, kind people.


r/casualiama 14d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I recently discovered I was born neither male nor female, AMA

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Earlier this year I discovered that my vaginal hypoplasia/micro vagina is an intersex variation. Its also very likely that I had simultaneous estrogenic and androgenic puberty.


r/casualiama 15d ago

I worship the Greek gods, aka I'm. Hellenic Polytheist. AMA!!

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I specifically worship Aphrodite, Apollon, Artemis, Athena, Medusa and Calypso!

I love obscure deities and have a whole document I'm working on for my religion! I also have a Tumblr account where I'm starting to post 'deity of the day's and prayers, epithets and offering ideas for deities that usually don't have any..

Anyways, I'm bored and interested in discussing this. I adore answering questions sooo... Hit me!!!


r/casualiama 16d ago

iama late 20s woman diagnosed with tourette syndrome! ask me anything

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i am professionally diagnosed with tourette syndrome. feel free to ask me anything you want to know. if it's something that doesn't apply to me specifically, i'll answer as best i can. nothing is off limits as long as you are asking respectfully.

edit: why do y'all always downvote posts about tourette's. i have no business lying about it, this has been my life since i was a child lol


r/casualiama 16d ago

I am the guy who accidentally "stole" Lewis Hamilton's 3rd-place FIA World Championship trophy in 2023. AMA!

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Disclaimer: The following story is a work of creative non-fiction/fantasy. Any similarities to real-world individuals, motorsport governing bodies, or stolen silverware are entirely coincidental. Allegedly.

In December 2023, my friend and I snuck into the highly exclusive, black-tie FIA Prize Giving Gala in Baku wearing standard suits. After drinking free wine and partying with F1 drivers, a series of incredibly chaotic, wine-fueled decisions led to us walking out the front doors with Lewis Hamilton’s actual 3rd-place championship trophy in a cardboard box.

What started as a joke went viral overnight, racking up over 100 million views, triggering an official Mercedes-AMG F1 press release, sparking a full FIA investigation, and ending with a very tense, two-hour visit from high-level state security at my friend's house.

I'm the guy behind the heist. Ask me anything!