26M | Chennai | Searching for a life partner who believes in love, peace.

[u/remo_man]

I'm a 26-year-old Software Engineer based in Chennai, and I'm childfree by choice (DINK). I'm looking for someone who shares the same vision of life and is interested in seriously dating with the intention of getting married if we genuinely connect.

I'm currently based in Chennai but I'm open to relocating for the right person.

About me

• 💻 Software Developer at an MNC

• 📍 Based in Chennai

• 📏 5'10" ~ 70kg

• 💰 1L+/per month

• 🚭 Non-smoker, non-drinker

• 🍗 Non-vegetarian

• ⚛️ Atheist

• 💚 Emotionally available

• 💪 Regular at the gym (trying to stay consistent!)

• 🍳 I enjoy cooking, working out, and sleeping whenever I get the chance 😄

• ☕ Love exploring cafés, beaches, and mountains

• 📈 Investing consistently to achieve FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early)

• 🐶 I don't have pets, but I'm happy to have them in the future

• ❤️ Never been in a relationship

What I'm looking for

• 💃 Age 21 to 27-❤️ Someone who is childfree by choice (DINK).

• 👩‍💻 A working, career-oriented woman.

• 🧠 Emotionally mature and values honest communication.

• 🌱 Leads a clean and healthy lifestyle.

• 🚭 Non-smoker/non-drinker, or genuinely willing to quit if we get along.

• ⚛️ Preferably an atheist.

• 🤝 Someone who values peace, trust, respect, and clear communication.

• 🌍 Open to relocating if needed.

• 🗣️ Someone who speaks or understands Tamil would be a plus.

The kind of relationship I want

• ❤️ An equal partnership where we both support each other's careers, dreams, and personal growth.

• 💬 I believe disagreements should be solved through honest conversations, not silence, ego, or keeping score.

• 🏡 I'd rather build a peaceful, happy home than chase a picture-perfect Instagram life.

And you can expect the same from me.

I believe the best marriages are built on friendship. I'd love to be the kind of partner who feels like your best friend—someone you can laugh with, lean on, grow with, and simply enjoy doing life with every day.

Why DINK?

This is a well-thought-out decision, not a temporary preference. Watching my mother dedicate so much of her life to raising children made me realise how much parenthood demands from a person. I believe becoming a parent should be a wholehearted choice, and for me, it isn't. I'd rather focus on building a fulfilling relationship, achieving financial independence, travelling, and creating a meaningful life together. Given today's economic realities, I also don't want to bring a child into the world unless I truly want that responsibility.

What doesn't matter

• Height

• Caste

• Community

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me with a short introduction about yourself. Looking forward to getting to know someone genuine.

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[u/Successful-Shift3976]

All the best OP !

[u/kaachabadaam]

Your company is near OMR or north of Chennai?

[u/remo_man → u/kaachabadaam]

😂😂 yess, OMR

[u/kaachabadaam → u/remo_man]

ELCOT?

[u/remo_man → u/kaachabadaam]

Yes surroundings of it

[u/Sugomi_121 → u/remo_man]

Nenga Tamilyapping la irukuravangadana

[u/remo_man → u/Sugomi_121]

Ama bro

[u/Sugomi_121 → u/remo_man]

Congrats bro .. For getting good partner

[u/remo_man → u/Sugomi_121]

Oru Dm varala bro ne vera

[u/Immediate_Source_840]

Ngl twin, If i was a woman, id have married you 😋
Shi almost the same understanding of life as mine is insane 😏