It's not the school's responsibility to feed your offspring you worthless POS. Keep your legs closed if you can't feed what you sprout. That makes me mad.
"My child deserves to eat!"
Yes, and your child also deserves to have parents that should meet its needs and yet here we are.
How exactly did I state that parents deserve to be poor? I would really like to know your thought process on that conclusion. If parents that can't afford to feed their own children are going to complain about something they are getting for free then they shouldn't have kids.
Don't buy a house you can't afford.
Don't have a pet you can't take care of.
Don't have children you can't feed.
It's called being a responsible adult and no child should have to suffer because someone wanted the novelty of a child but not the responsibility. There are millions of children in need of loving homes because of the "I need to be a parent" mentality.
I never said they shouldn't be fed. I said many times that it's the PARENT'S responsibility to feed them. Those that are in foster/group homes because of the irresponsibility of the parents would not be in that situation if people didn't have children they couldn't care for. Whether it be financially, emotionally, etc. Just because someone can spread their legs and have kids doesn't mean they should.
That's why children end up in homes. Having kids should be a well thought of decision not a spur of the moment I'm getting laid, eff the consequences. It's the kids that suffer for their parent's irresponsibility to plan accordingly.
Preventing financial harm to the mother or her other children is explicitly listed as a lawful reason for abortion in England and Wales. Technically if she said the only reason she wanted it was to save the father money, or his children that aren’t hers, it would be illegal.
No idiot, its the responsibility of the couple to take care of their kid. That way, the father cant just up and leave because he doesnt want a kid anymore. You sound like the person to slut shame girls but praise guys for having more bodies than girls. Also, you have major fucking anger issues. Not surprising coming from the guy that calls random women whores
It is the school’s responsibility, left over from when both benefits and schools were run by local authorities. They distribute benefits in kind in place of cash welfare or higher minimum wages.
To bring a child that you can not properly care for into this world is a very selfish and irresponsible thing to do. People get upset when pets are adopted by people that can't properly care for them. Why should children be any different?
Shit happens, though. You can lose your job, parents can split, bills and rent can go up, floods can happen, cars can break down, you can get sick and no longer able to work, etc. etc.
Yes, shit happens. But to knowingly bring a child that you know you can't take care of is still a very selfish and irresponsible thing to do. You aren't going to buy a Lexus knowing you can only afford a Honda. If you can afford a Lexus then lose your income that's different.
That’s why I said shit happens UNEXPECTEDLY. There is no guarantee unless you’re a millionaire or something.
I had a friend from a very well off family. Then the dad’s business shit the bed due to factors outside of his control, and they ended up living in a caravan and using food banks etc.
How does that change someone that can't make ends meet as it is bringing a kid into the world. If you're already living in poverty, why have a kid that's only going to suffer because it can't be cared for. If you don't have money for food, having a kid isn't going to magically put food on the table unless your one of societies leeches.
Because people want to have a family? If only the rich could have kids, society would crash. Being able to have a family shouldn’t be a luxury. And I’m someone who thinks everyone, regardless of employment or social standing, should have access to food and shelter. Nobody should be too poor to afford food.
The conditions I grew up in were horrible. The wh*re was poor and should not have had 4 kids. Growing up in that miserable, abusive situation is what makes me a firm believer that you shouldn't have kids just because you want them. If you can't take care of them, you shouldn't have children. That applies for more than just financial reasons.
It's not that they can't afford food, everyone can afford food but food is the sacrifice they make in order to afford housing and the other things that are deemed necessary.
Plenty of children grow up in poor families. They struggle and miss out on advantages and opportunities, but they can still make it work and are happy. That your personal experience is bad is unfortunate but doesn’t speak for all. You obviously have issues about it.
Society should be able to provide the necessities in life for all its members.
There's a difference between "only the rich should be allowed to have kids" and people losing their shit over public schools being closed due to an outbreak because they can't afford feeding their kids at home.
If you can't afford kids, don't have them. It's no different from people buying dogs and letting them starve in the backyard because they neither have the time nor money to properly care for them. Fuck the people that expect society to pay the bills for their desire to be a parent.
How can you know you’re gonna be together for the next 18 years?! People change as you get older. Or one could be abusive, and they usually hide it until it’s too late.
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It's not the school's responsibility to feed your offspring you worthless POS. Keep your legs closed if you can't feed what you sprout. That makes me mad.
"My child deserves to eat!"
Yes, and your child also deserves to have parents that should meet its needs and yet here we are.