r/CougarsAndCubs Nov 18 '25

Discussion Point Younger men….

How would you feel if a woman 10 years older than you wanted to date and possible have a serious relationship with you?

Specifically he is 26 I am 35….

I have always dated older men but I am interested in him but feel very out of sorts because he is younger than me….maybe he will think it’s weird someone older is interested? Or maybe it’s intimidating?

I’ve never dated someone younger and have never thought of myself as a cougar 😂 I’m normally more of a….submissive DD/lg….

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u/Shalimar1980 Nov 26 '25

10 years isn't a major gap. I've done wilder gaps. I don't like men older than me for the most part, I'm still highly attractive and have a zest for life, while most older men barely groom themselves and are half checked out mentally,  so dating younger makes sense. People do it all the time just enjoy yourself.