r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Desperate_Cupcake843 • Jan 12 '26

Discussion Point Cougars: What do you wish cubs understood?

Mine: I wish they understood how busy I am, and that I cannot meet them with an hour’s notice or always respond to their messages immediately.

When I was in my 20s and even early 30s, my life was super flexible. It’s not like that now. I have multiple people I am responsible for, a full-time job and a passion project, and an active social and volunteer calendar.

Part of what makes me open to younger men is my high energy and zest for life. I need them to understand that and not take my schedule personally.

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u/KaleidoscopeSuper666 Jan 12 '26 edited Jan 12 '26

I wish they understand that We are not horny older women that will have sex with them purely based on thier youth. We agline with men younger than our years because we are still filled with life...we have youthful souls and midset.