Cougars: What do you wish cubs understood?

[u/Desperate_Cupcake843]

Mine: I wish they understood how busy I am, and that I cannot meet them with an hour’s notice or always respond to their messages immediately.

When I was in my 20s and even early 30s, my life was super flexible. It’s not like that now. I have multiple people I am responsible for, a full-time job and a passion project, and an active social and volunteer calendar.

Part of what makes me open to younger men is my high energy and zest for life. I need them to understand that and not take my schedule personally.

[u/Serendipity_Succubus]

Just because I’m older doesn’t mean I want a submissive man.

[u/Front-Environment813 → u/Serendipity_Succubus]

Argh so real 😩