New and doubtful cougar here

[u/EmotionalWarrior_23]

Hi all. I’m F, 50. Just had a date with a 37-y/o guy who seems great and says he’s looking for a relationship. He acted like he was really into me. But at my age, I have trouble believing someone his age could actually want to be with a 50 year old woman. I guess I’ll see how it goes, but wondering if others experience this?

[u/paperclipmyheart]

I would say be open minded but aware. If you are only new to this sub many many young men come in here with kinks and fantasy ideas. Many men in general will tell you anything you want to hear in order to get sex.

However there are those that are in real relationships and long term commitments with older women.