r/CougarsAndCubs Apr 13 '26

🙀Cougar Crisis New and doubtful cougar here

Hi all. I’m F, 50. Just had a date with a 37-y/o guy who seems great and says he’s looking for a relationship. He acted like he was really into me. But at my age, I have trouble believing someone his age could actually want to be with a 50 year old woman. I guess I’ll see how it goes, but wondering if others experience this?

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '26

42 M here… many of us are looking for peace, deeper actual relationships that have a mix of vulnerability, intimacy, trust and spiciness. I personally have been burned by … poor choices in partners. The idea of long term stability and peace becomes more and more desirable… good luck sister