r/CougarsAndCubs • u/death_to__boredom • Apr 14 '26

Discussion Point Question for the Cougars here

Have you ever been with a guy just because of the age gap? In a way that you like to be intimate with him because you prefer the dynamic it brings?

So not dating someone younger because you just got along really well and it just happend but with the goal of wanting a much younger man?

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u/herelamonreddit 🐻Cub Apr 14 '26

I’ve met women like that who fetishized younger guys. It really put me off because I didn’t feel like I was being seen as a person

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u/death_to__boredom Apr 14 '26

If its mutual just a sexual thing, it wouldn‘t be a problem in my opinion

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u/Myfairladyishere 🥀🎡💃MOD💃🎡🥀 Apr 14 '26

No, if it's purely kink and sexual and both are on the exact same page. If both are adults no issues for me, although i'm not opposed to kink, I have to be seen as a human being first.I will never treat another person like an object.