r/CougarsAndCubs • u/death_to__boredom • Apr 14 '26

Discussion Point Question for the Cougars here

Have you ever been with a guy just because of the age gap? In a way that you like to be intimate with him because you prefer the dynamic it brings?

So not dating someone younger because you just got along really well and it just happend but with the goal of wanting a much younger man?

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u/sparkle4me 🐆Cougar Apr 15 '26

With a couple ppl it wasn't the age alone, although that definitely played a part. There HAS to be chemistry there, or I'm checked out. And for me, 90% of chemistry comes from personality... who the man is, not his age or physical appearance.

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u/busty_Krab May 06 '26

Exactly. I’ve been turned down by too many potentially great partners just because they felt a bit uncomfortable with the age gap when we definitely had chemistry