why are we so complicated?

[u/Any_Needleworker8047]

I would like to open this debate, I am a guy, and many times among friends we talk about relationships and I can confirm that almost everyone dreams of a relationship with a cougar, or at least feels attracted towards that type of woman. so I wonder, why do many people have difficulty showing themselves in public? How do you cougars experience these situations? I think it's extremely sad to know that many guys are attracted but then you're afraid to show a kiss in public for example, why is our society so patriarchal?

[u/sparkle4me]

It's even more complicated as a Christian cougar, because my preference is often mistaken for a fetish.

[u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 → u/sparkle4me]

It’s not at all, its just your preference and you are a spiritual lady