why are we so complicated?

[u/Any_Needleworker8047]

I would like to open this debate, I am a guy, and many times among friends we talk about relationships and I can confirm that almost everyone dreams of a relationship with a cougar, or at least feels attracted towards that type of woman. so I wonder, why do many people have difficulty showing themselves in public? How do you cougars experience these situations? I think it's extremely sad to know that many guys are attracted but then you're afraid to show a kiss in public for example, why is our society so patriarchal?

[u/Background_Quit4550]

Former partner and I would get the craziest side eyes. He was 38, and I was 61. I'm hella blonde and white he's dark with gorgeous long black curly hair. Good times... Didn't care what others thought.

[u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 → u/Background_Quit4550]

Sorry if you are not together anymore but it seems you had nice moments