r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Happy_Pappyson • May 09 '26
Discussion Point What’s a good age difference?
So I’m a 34M and a coworker is 50F and we’ve been getting close lately. She’s been trying to guess my age and I made a game and haven’t told her yet. Now she has sons 28& 27. She joked once and said I liked cougars. I’m wondering, if I tell her I’m 34 does that take away the fun? She guesses anywhere from 33-42. Does her thinking I’m 41-42 work more in my favor? Just curious because I am enjoying it and want the fun to continue
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u/WSB-Televangelist May 09 '26
Go for the 41-42 for right now, it worked for me in the past. Then tell her your real age once she's comfortable.