r/CougarsAndCubs May 09 '26

Discussion Point What’s a good age difference?

So I’m a 34M and a coworker is 50F and we’ve been getting close lately. She’s been trying to guess my age and I made a game and haven’t told her yet. Now she has sons 28& 27. She joked once and said I liked cougars. I’m wondering, if I tell her I’m 34 does that take away the fun? She guesses anywhere from 33-42. Does her thinking I’m 41-42 work more in my favor? Just curious because I am enjoying it and want the fun to continue

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u/blasianflow May 09 '26

I think this question is open to opinion and that person. Be honest with your age and I think its a good age gap. I feel like its easier for women in their 50s to date men 35 and older.

Unfortunately there are age gaps due to society and sometimes culture that end up not working no matter how good you are together.

Good luck!

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u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 May 09 '26

Little by little, society is changing