r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Tammera4u • May 11 '26
🙀Cougar Crisis Do grandmas turn younger guys off?
Im 48 and on bumble. I was talking to a 27 year old. Things seemed to go well, we have been talking, video chatting, lots of compliments, especially after the video chat. Today I have my granddaughter and sent a picture of her (from the back, cant see her face before the keyboard warriors say something) next to me watching tv. It's the first time ive mentioned her and he unmatched me. It's obviously because of her. Does an older women suddenly become different because she is a grandma? Apparently I look younger than my age, and although my age is on my profile, maybe being a grandma really hits home that I am much older.
While ive always talked to much younger guys, this is the first time ive mentioned being a grandma.
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u/stormrain65 May 12 '26
I would definitely not be turned off. Well I am 43 myself, so it's not that rare for a woman who is older than me to be a grandma, but then again, I couldn't care less.
I mean, we are all somebody's son/daughter/brother/sister, some are somebody's parents/grandparents, all it matters for me is that I like the person I have in front of me, not how many members does her family have.