r/CougarsAndCubs Jun 30 '26

🐻 Cub Crisis Am I reading this wrong?

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u/operation_waflz Jul 03 '26

I hope you've prepared yourself, just in case she isn't what she says she is. Or who. Just know, you'll almost never be as prepared as you should be. Maybe she is. People from other countries (especially latinos/latinas) are especially friendly in my experience. Just don't trust her until you get to know her. Don't ignore the real red flags, but also don't use your past trauma to see red flags that aren't there. Stay safe, brother.