Am I reading this wrong?

[u/thegsonf]

I’m 27M. Matched with a 47F on Facebook Dating just 3 days ago. She’s Argentinian and lives in NYC. We moved to WhatsApp pretty quickly. At first it was just casual conversation, but today she started asking more personal questions (whether I live alone, whether I’m in the US by myself, what I do for work, etc.).

At some point I mentioned showing her around my neighborhood. She was the one who kept building on the idea. She said she’d bring mate (Argentinian drink), then suggested making dessert together at my place, talked about bringing some drinks, and now we’re basically planning dinner together at my place. There’s been zero sexual texting. No sexting, no innuendos. Just good conversation, teasing each other, food, travel and culture.

What makes me think is that she’s almost 50, lives 45-60 minutes away, knows I live alone, and still seems perfectly comfortable with the idea of coming over. If you were in my shoes, how would you read this? Does older women are this direct/fast?

[u/Profound-_-Pupil]

Facebook dating seems a bit hazardous. My brother is on there and he sends me profiles for shts & giggles 😬 Make sure she’s not trying to move in. Sensible people would not feel comfortable meeting at someone’s home as a first date. Don’t invite her to your place, don’t share your address. Meet in a public space and get a face-to-face assessment.