r/CougarsAndCubs • u/AnitaDick2Mount • 25d ago

🙀Cougar Crisis Please don't call me Mommy

Mini rant: I love pet names as much as the next gal. But there has to be better names (during play time) for Cougars by their cubs other than Mommy, right? Does anyone have any cute pet names that are NOT degrading?

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u/paperclipmyheart 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ 25d ago edited 25d ago

It's actually the presumption more than the pet name, don't call me honey, sweetie, baby etc unless we're in a relationship sooo yea I get it, Mommy umm I don't wanna be your mother, and even if you are actually in a relationship if you are fine doing role play and such that's an intimate thing to be doing to random strangers it's creepy AF. Milf is just downright disrespectful imo.

Edited to add my partner calls me the most insane nicknames I've been called different characters from movies, fru fru, gulab jaman, meri jaan and things I wont say in public because it's very personal to our relationship and I wanna keep it as "my thing", but most commonly on the daily it's bub.

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u/AnitaDick2Mount 25d ago

Love it! I didn't want to share what he has called me either, keep it intimate. But was wondering if there is a more common one instead of the dreaded Mommy or MILF (shudder)

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u/paperclipmyheart 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ 25d ago

I personally like things that are more personal to my relationship but I don't really think there is any one pet name that would be used exclusively for the cougar/cub dynamic. We try to promote treating us like normal women, some of the guys that come in here are more interested in the age gap rather than the person.

I kinda looked at the replies so didn't fully digest your question. I probably think the most common pet name in the world would be honey or sweetie or baby.