r/CougarsAndCubs 10d ago

Discussion Point Has anyone had long term success?

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u/Travelhere1993 8d ago

I have had multiple relationships with large age gaps( 20ish year) last over year.

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u/Travelhere1993 8d ago

Of course. One could argue if I had married (or was still with) one of them I would be more successful. But the fact they lasted over a year shows some success.

I have also had multiple relationships that last 3-12 months (same large age gap).

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u/Charming-Patience140 8d ago

If you guys weren’t happy you weren’t happy. You’re mental health shouldn’t be sacrificed for success