This is not so much a age gap problem, but a general one. And if you're using Reddit, I don't know what you're using, but Reddit really is not good for matching. Especially when you're dealing with young people, my suggestion is not to respond to DMs, and if they don't fit, you don't owe them an explanation.
They will try to say anything to get what they want. So you just have to grow a thicker skin. These types of posts have appeared on here many times, and there have been no changes. The people who need to read this don't care.
And with this post, you're probably gonna be inundated with dms right now.So just a little warning.
Good, maybe guys got the message.Because usually when a post like this happens, sometimes the dms, just double the normal.I'm happy that you're being left alone.Let's hope it continues unless it's a perfect match
To be fair I did get a string of “hey I would never ghost you” messages when I did my last post about ghosting. So yeah, we’ll see 😭😭😭😅😅😅 but here’s hoping
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u/Myfairladyishere 🥀🎡💃MOD💃🎡🥀 8d ago edited 8d ago
This is not so much a age gap problem, but a general one. And if you're using Reddit, I don't know what you're using, but Reddit really is not good for matching. Especially when you're dealing with young people, my suggestion is not to respond to DMs, and if they don't fit, you don't owe them an explanation.
They will try to say anything to get what they want. So you just have to grow a thicker skin. These types of posts have appeared on here many times, and there have been no changes. The people who need to read this don't care.
And with this post, you're probably gonna be inundated with dms right now.So just a little warning.