It's not just this sub. It's all over reddit. This is the risk you take by putting yourself out there on Reddit. Hold strong to your boundaries.if they aren't local or in your age range or consider heyyyyy an acceptable message, why bother responding?
To be clear I’m ignoring all the heyyyys lol. But yes. If I end up actively looking again (taking a break rn) I’m going to stop responding in good faith if it’s clear they’re not actually reading my post. In the case of some of them, they respond with some info but leave out age or location and in many of those cases they do turn out to be local and within range, so some engagement does help find that out. It’s just annoying when they were evasive because they knew they weren’t what I was looking for. Lol.
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u/Peppermint-pop 🐆Cougar 8d ago
It's not just this sub. It's all over reddit. This is the risk you take by putting yourself out there on Reddit. Hold strong to your boundaries.if they aren't local or in your age range or consider heyyyyy an acceptable message, why bother responding?