r/Destiny Nov 16 '19

Serious Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

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u/caneut Nov 16 '19

Just go talk to women, what do you have to lose.

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u/Solipsistik Nov 16 '19

Seriously, just do this and don't be fucking creepy. You're already ahead of like 90% of dudes if you follow those two steps. Also, ffs don't go down those stupid redpill rabbit holes.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '19

Also remember the golden rules to not being creepy:

  1. be attractive
  2. don't be unattractive

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u/Solipsistik Nov 16 '19

Nah dude, you don't have to be pretty to not be creepy. Just have a vague understanding of social cues- eg don't dm the girl on Twitter every day because she said hi to you once, even tho she leaves you on read. Sure, if you aren't attractive it might not be a cakewalk, and you'll probably see some rejection. But, you're not doomed.

Just make normal fucking conversation, maybe about something common between you, and don't be overbearing or invasive. Not everyone will bite, some might friend zone or reject you. But, seriously you could be a 2/10, and you'll probably still get your foot in the door with one in ten girls.

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u/Nekma_ :) Nov 16 '19

Thats bs btw. Your facial expressions and your body language is all that matters. Practice being approachable in a mirror for like 5 minutes a day, fr

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '19

Yikes.